I dont know what to do right know?

Question

Hi my name is Coty and I'm a 16 year old and I'm 8 months pregnant and i was going to do a private adoption but i have been having a lot of 2nd thoughts and i have got really attached to the baby. I might be having her soon and every one wants me to make a chose and i really don't know what to do or say. i really want to keep her but at the same time every one is telling me to do the adoption and every thing like that. if i keep the baby the daddy is willing to be there for her and he is going to support the chose. he is 17 years old and we are no longer together.

Answer 1

First of all, this is our choice. I am a boy, and the problem was with one of my cousins. You need to look at it towards the future. Are you able to support it? If there is any way you are not able to, then I don't think you should keep it. But, if your family, or another family embraces this baby as a 'new beginning' and they can help you financially during college, then yes you should keep it.

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