I dont know what to do some help please

Question

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ok my younger sister had a friend comeover she's 12 and I found out she had a major crush on me and I mean major like she added me on aim and out of no where said I would do anything to make you happy and I was like huh? and then she talked about if she ever slepted over after my sis fell asleep she would come in my room while I'm asleep and give me head till I come I

mean wow she looks much older like 16-17yo old but what the h**l can I do this is way to awkward and I've never ever had s*x or had any sexual relations with a girl because I'm to d**n shy and she even said even if I don't want to date her she just wants to give me head every time she comes over anyway plz help maybe tell me what I can do and she is kinda attractive like I said she looks older.i'm so lost on what to do I need some answers please.but she's 12 can you see where I'm comin from I don't want to sound weird or anything because I'm 16yo and if I was 22 and she was 18 now that's different you know

Answer 1

Be mature, talk to her and let her know you are flattered that she has a crush on you, but you don't feel it would be right for this to happen, because it wouldn't be... tell her that her feelings are normal, but she should have respect for herself and you, and to give herself time to grow and mature more before she does something that you both will end up feeling bad about in the long run, besides think of what your sister would think if she found out or you got caught, it would all lead to bad juju... control yourself and think of the consequences, nothing is worth the risk it would take to do something like this... love and respect yourself also, you have a long life ahead of you and this would be a bad scar to carry...

Answer 2

Tell her your to old for her and she needs to back off, if she doesnt buy it, just tell her your not into her and you dont want to do that kind of stuff with her, it may be hard cause your shy but would you rather go to jail or have a 30 second conversation with her about leaving you alone.. trust me once your done talking to her, youll feel much better.. but all you have to say is.. back off, i dont like you like that

hope that helps

Answer 3

tell her to back off, and lock the door at night!!

Answer 4

well, if you think its wrong, then you have to tell her how it is.  You have to tell her that theres a big age difference, and its wrong.  Or you can do what you really want, and give in.  Your choice.  Just think about the consequences

Answer 5

hard as it may be because you're shy you've got to tell her to back off, 12 yr old girls are major jailbait  I mean she is still a CHILD and you really don't want to spend a lot of time in jail and then the rest of your life labeled as  a child molester do you? This is serious bring your parents in on it if you have to but do something,now not later.

Answer 6

don't do it man >no matter how much old she looks, she's not.  You don't want to messing with 12 y/olds > what would you say if you had to talk to her father?  The police?

no good end will come of this.

Answer 7

Yeah, in this case, you have to be responsible legally.  Tell her it's not going to work out because of her age.

You will not want to be found guilty of assault, which you will, by legal definition, if you go ahead with this.  There are lots of young guys who had consensual s*x, at the girls' urging, who are now doing time in prison because the law dictates this.  The girl can't save you, and her parents cant, no matter what...the law is very very clear, and supercedes anything that consenting youth or adults say.

She's too young.  You're probably the only one who can set this boundary, but you need to do it.