I dont know what to dooooo what a big problem?

Question

so i am 20and i just got a job as a waitress and i find out im pregnant. but see when i was 14 i had a boy who i have for adoption AGAINST MY WILL hate my parents. and when i was 16 i got prego again and got an abortion. and i became so sad after that i pruposely got myself pregnant a year later and miscarred!! and so now im 19 and prego!! and i dont know what to do!!!!!! someone tell me what to do!!!!!! i alreayd have a adopted son who i miss and an aborted and a miscarried now i need a keeper but im so not sure!!!!! i am like 7 months along now i know right shoudlve asked this question before but i didnt think of it!! my son is called orson and i called my aborted baby alex because its unisex but my miscarried baby i knew it was a girl sos i called her talya!!! and i know this one is a girl!!!!! i am confuzzled!!!! what should i do heeeeeellllpppp

Answer 1

I think you should step up on the plate and accept responsibility. It'll be hard but you'll get through it. You gotta prove yourself that you can do it. You made your bed now lay on it. Good luck!

Answer 2

i feel horrible for the children! and you pretty much dont have the right to name a child that you killed--because of you,that child will never experience life and never use that name...

why didnt you just put "alex" up for adoption as well? instead of aborting him/her?

i do feel bad that you had a miscarriage--but who knows?-You could have had an abortion in the back of your mind anyway..

im sorry for being harsh,but I am really against abortion..

Answer 3

Use birth control you are very irresponsible.

Answer 4

Do you know what rubber is?  

Answer 5

Look, i'll try and be as nice as possible.

First, do NOT listen to the negative answers you are gonna get.

Yes, this was very much irresponsible of you, but you already missed three babies.

When you really do have one for keeps, and he grows up and learns that he had like 4 brothers that he/she missed, you may be in danger of him/her hating you for it.

You should have this one and take good care of her like you've never cared for anyone before.

She is your own flesh and blood and she really wants to be with you.

It's a gift, You shouldn't be a re-gifter or dispose of it.

Love her, For she will surely love you back like no one has ever done before.

(: be the generous beautiful mother you were born to be, and make up for your past mistakes making this young beautiful girl a Model Woman for her own children sometime in the future.

hope i helped a bit!, and Congratulations sweetie. :)Best of luck for you two!

Answer 6

I dont know your parents but...it seems like you really need them. Maybe not your birth parents but find a father and mother figure. Have the kid...and grow up. But if you cant, let this kid be adopted too. Don't be selfish cause you have another person to think about besides yourself. Just make sure the baby has a good home...otherwise you'll feel even more guilty.  

Answer 7

What do you do? Have it and raise it.  My lord, such a simple answer. You can't just change your mind and return it. You need to deal with it and move on.  

Answer 8

Contraception?

Answer 9

Keep, and love the baby, let it have the life the others didnt, and let him/her have the mummy the other hasnt...

Try and make up for the past, do your best with this precious life

Answer 10

Be a mother you have always wanted to me and use protection if you don't want any more kids, but this is your chance to actually be a proper mum and look after the baby and not give it away for adoption

Answer 11

Keep your legs shut.

Name it b*****d.

Answer 12

OH MY GOD! IT"S SO SAD!

Grow up. You sound like a troll.

So you're 20, butn you have a 36 yr old friend that drinks pee, and you saved a cow, and you work as a waitress.

Yeahh.

If you are for real though, keep the baby, and take care of it. Find a job, and make your own money, instead of asking yur parents to buy you stuff.

Answer 13

i hate these bullsh*t questions...really? 7 months pregnant and your considering an abortion....NOW???  no doctor would preform an abortion.. its too late!!!

go away and read a book

Answer 14

Ignore the previous responses.  I am sorry you are faced with such judgemental people.  as for what you should do?  Be the Mom you are ment to be to this child.  This little angel is a blessing and you will be a wonderful mother to her.  I am sorry for your previous loss'.  I too have miscarried so I understand that pain.  As for your other loss' I don't have personal experience, but my heart aches for you.  I really believe this little angel you carry now is ment to be here for you at this point in your life.  Good luck and keep your head up

Answer 15

FInd faith in the LORD!!! He will answer all your questions!!

Babies are precious. Cheerish the little baby since its a gift from GOD!!  Be gracious and thankful because there are thousands of woman who want children but have not been blessed.

Be thankful!!!

Answer 16

tragic

Answer 17

You are 20 years old.  You are old enough to have a child and care for it.  You can obviously find work and it is too late for an abortion this time, so make up for all the pain and loss of all the other children and have and care for this one.  

It will be your way of making a commitment to yourself and the child that you can be responsible and adult about having had s*x. It will change your life, but it sounds like you would welcome the change.

And if your parents still care for you as it sounds like they do, it will likely bring you all closer as a family.