I dont know who to belive

Question

ok so i guess ever since i started my new job my boyfriends been acting odd. there was a couple times in the last week where he didn't awns er his phone for hours. didn't respond back to texts of mine. so when i did get ahold of him he said he never got my calls. but he tried to call me and i ddidn't awnser. i asked him if something was up and he told me no then accused me of cheating on him. so yesterday i was at work and a coworker who knows my boyfriend told me he seen him driving around with another girl. i asked my boyfriend and he exploded. he told me off which he has never done before. accused me again and said it was over. now i don't want to believe my coworker but it was on one of the days i couldn't get ahold of my bf. what do i do/?

Answer 1

leave him alone if he accuses you of cheating is because he is the one doing it and he is trying to take the pressure off of him self also if he was not really with another girl why did he need to get mad about it he could have simply said it was not me

Answer 2

wow its really weird why he is accusing YOU. i think he is trying to hide the fact that HE is the one doing the cheating. and he was probably planning on breaking up with you which is why he told u off

but who knows

Answer 3

if hes gonna act immiture...

good riddence he could have picked up the phone.

Answer 4

this sounds a little weird but this sounds exactly like a skit I saw Dane Cook do. He was talking about the time he cheated on his gf and he was excited when he got away with it but then suspected HER of cheating on HIM for no good reason. Trust is an important part of a relationship, though, so if you guys can't trust each other then there's no point anymore

Answer 5

sei un'immatura, cresci!

Answer 6

Your boyfriend has got guilt written all over him. Sorry it does sound to me like he is cheating, all the signs. I've been there...

Why would your co worker lie- think about it & why is he saying it's over with you & him... dodgy

Answer 7

Well, I hate to break it to you, but he probably is cheating and I think maybe deep down inside you know that and don't want to admit it to yourself. It's a hard thing to deal with and you don't deserve it. Someone who is going to cheat on you and act the way your boyfriend did isn't someone you need in your life. Chances are he blew up at you and turned the tables to make it seem like you are cheating is because he feels guilty and rather than being a real man and owning up to it, he is passing the blame. You have to ask yourself is there any reason for your co-worker to lie to you and also like you said it happened one on of the days that he wasn't answering his phone, so that kind of shows right there. Be strong and don't let him make you feel bad!!!