I dont like him but I cant stop thinking about him?? I'm 14 please help!?

Question

Okayy so theres this boy and I've known him and his twin brother for about a year and the first couple times i met them i really started to like the 1. But after a little while i stopped. So all this time went by with me just liking them as friends but about a week ago I started to like the OTHER one. So this other one found out and said he just wants to be friends and I'm cool with that. But now just yesterday I found out that the first one I use to like likes me and had liked me since we met. And even though I still sorta like his brother I cant stop thinking about him and how he likes me and how I use to like him. Idk what to do I just wanna be friends and I dont think i like him more than a friend but I cant stop thinking about him! I really don't get this.

Sorry if that was confusing lol I was confusing myself.

please help if you can!

thanks =)

Answer 1

look u liked him for first few days ,,must be a normal attraction we have towards few. and then after few days u stopped liking,, so he must have done something like tht which made u not like him more,, and still u keep thinking abt him, means there is still something tht strikes u abt him,, find out ,,list it on paper what r the facts or a fact u like abt him and then think do u want to be friends or would like to move ahead.

and i feel same thing is happening with u in case of his brother, so jst take time and think for ur self may be its jst attraction not real love or nything.

Answer 2

Hi Gia,

14 what a great age! well why don't you just hang out with him, right? no harm in that is there? and see if anything more comes from it (if your feelings change)...if not you have a really good, great friend and you can never have to many of them!  But just relax and enjoy, you don't need the drama so don't create it, enjoy the boy or boys, and have fun...