I dont like one of my wifes friends?

Question

everytime she gets around her she dont act like herself she is atarting to act a lot like her friend (bi@@h) and even talks like her my wife is 38 and her friend is 24 now my wife is trying to act like one

Answer 1

Is your wife aware of how you feel? You should let her know how you feel about her friend. And maybe a serious talk is in order for the both of you. Good Luck

Answer 2

Have you tried talking to your wife?  Not in a confrontational way, just communicate that u have noticed that she tends to change a bit when her friend is around.  Other than that, stay away from them when they are together and hopefully things will calm down.  One thing not to do is tell your wife that you don't want her to be friends with this person- most likely that will cause her to be around her more and cause an argument between the two of you.

Good luck to you!

Answer 3

Sounds like a problem that is quite common. Her friends remind her of youth. Like many older people they will react with the younger generation to make themselves feel younger. If her friends who are younger act like this your wife believes this is the way the youth act and will copycat that behavior.

The best thing to do is confront her about it, ask why she does this? By bringing it up you might make her focus on the point that she does not need to do this.

She might be doing this subconsciously, so bringing it to her attention will make it a conscious effort.

You must express your distaste to her behavior when she acts like her friends. Being in a marriage you should be able to share these worries for one another.

One final tip, take out more one-and-one time and tell her how much you care and love her for who she is. This way she will believe in herself more and hopefully stop acting differently.

Answer 4

You should tell your wife how you fell. Or yell at your wife's friend to get out of your house.

Answer 5

make fun of her about it from time to time about how she changes when her friend is around... shell eventually notice this and become embarrassed thus causing her to TRY and act like her self when this friend is around or better yet may cause her to resent this friend altogether.

Answer 6

How often does she see this woman? If it's only sporadic, let it go, or try suggesting she have a girl's night when she's with this person.

If it's more than just once in a while, your wife probably feels insecure around this woman, which is making he act the way she is, especially because of the age difference. You might try complimenting her in front of her friend, or doing something extra nice - it might bring her back to "reality". If she's being a bi**h after that, ask her why she does the things she does or says in front of her friend, but don't question her overall character, as it will just make her feel hostile. Tell her it hurts your feelings or it doesn't seem like her, and maybe is something wrong? She might open up, or at least change her ways.