I dont no what to do about my friend need help!?

Question

ok so i have 2 best friends. they both hate each other and are totally different. one is emoish and the other a prep

so anyways this is about my emoish friend. i just moved away so i cant keep her from doing things. but she used to party, drink, smoke pot, do it with random guys stuff like that. when we were friends i had her stop and she was getting really nice and doing a lot better in school and at home. but since i have moved she is starting to do all those things again. i think if she had another good friend like me she would stop or her family actually care she was doing those things but they dont. i dont no what to do because i dont want anything bad to happen to her and i no she can be really good and stuff but if im not around she hangs out with her old friends and im really worried about her. what should i do???

thanks

Answer 1

Keep in constant contact with her. You can do this via emails, text messages, IM & phone calls. Give her plenty of encouragement & show her that someone in her life cares deeply.

You got to let her know that she is ruining her life away if she continues with the way she is going. Tell her that you'll like to see a sucessful friend 10 years down the road, someone who you can be proud of to call a friend.

You are a wonderful person & have a big heart. You just need to expand it a little bit to cover her. Take care & best of luck,,

Answer 2

The only thing you can do is try to stay in touch with her, let her know that you still care and want the best for her. Maybe she feels like because you're gone that she has nobody except her old friends. Remind her of the good times you guys had and encourage her to continue to do well.

Good luck, I hope this helps!