I dont respect myself my daugher takes ?

Question

advantage of me and i am sick of it she,s always asking for money and dosent help me and i bring up her kids her sister works hard but why dont i respect myself

Answer 1

Short answer: Well dont do it....

Answer 2

Well if you continue to allow it ..she will continue to take advantage ..stop ..

Answer 3

she will never respect you because you don't respect yourself

Answer 4

Sounds like you are tired of being a door matt- you need to sit down and have a talk with her and tell her that things are going to stop- you love her and the kids, but it is not your job to give her money or raise her children-

Answer 5

say no and mean it, or shell never stop.

Answer 6

You don't have to give her money or watch her kids, you are allowing her to walk all over you.

Say NO.

I can't tell you why you don't respect yourself, most likely is something very personal that happened and/or how you were treated as a child.