I dont understand guyss?

Question

some guys like fat girls? How come most dont? I dont understand

Answer 1

I like big guys. Most women I know likes trim ones. We all have preferences different from each other which is good because none of us are built the same.

Answer 2

It has some to do with culture. We are used to seeing folks on TV being called pretty - that's what people start to think of as normal . . .

Answer 3

An overwhelming majority of men and women prefer healthy body types. That means you shouldn't look like a walking skeleton and you shouldn't be obese. Both are bad for you and both send out a very loud signal saying "I don't care about my health", whether that signal is accurate or not, doesn't matter... because that's what everyone will see.

Preferring someone with a healthy looking body is not being superficial or immature. It's being human. Instinct plays a huge role in this.

May not be "fair" but that's how the world works. A few hundred years ago, being very large was considered attractive because the culture thought it was healthy, it meant the woman was being fed. Now that we die at 80+ and not 45 or in childbirth, we have learned all of the destructive and dangerous qualities that go along with being very overweight. So it's no longer the preference. And as long as everyone continues to have a longer lifespan, it will stay that way.

Answer 4

Everyone has their taste.

Some guys like big women, just as some guys like thin girls, and you have guys who like them in between, big butt, big b***s, and etc.

Everyone has a different taste, and there are all types of women in this world to suite everyone dream girl.

But as for why most may not desire a bigger woman, the media influences the weak minded into passing judgment without getting to know a person.

Answer 5

lazy answer.

what they said.

Answer 6

soeciety influences our desires simple. historically men found "fat" read as volupatrous women, its all soceitys opinion.

Answer 7

Why would any guy want to put his dicq in a skinny piece of sht?  What exactly do skinny girls have besides flat arssses?

Answer 8

Some of it seems to be dependent on the physical type of the guy, as well as the girl. People are attracted to people they can relate to, so maybe physical shape has some effect on the subconscious process? On the other hand, it could also be that people with similar activity levels will have more successful relationships -I'm not saying it's impossibly for a gym rat and a complete couch potato to get along, I'm just saying that an athlete is going to want to get up and run while a couch potato will be happier watching TV. Neither is a better person- or possibly a combination of the two.

Answer 9

It's all about preference.

Answer 10

I seriously think this is what happens. Girls who are heavier usually have lower self esteem and less confidence. Lower self esteem = unattractive. A heavier girl with good self esteem, feels s**y and shows confidence = attractive. But some guys definitely have preferences for body types. ANd some don't. Humans are complex and vary in what they like...

Answer 11

Each to its own. There are even guys that like other guys. And guys that do not feel sexual desires.

It would be impossible for one that do not like fat girls to know what does a person that likes them see. So don't try, just accept it.

Answer 12

some guys like fat girls, some guys like thin girls. Some guys are not attracted to fat girls, some guys are not attracted to thin girls. So what's the problem? it is a matter of preference and even though the culture we live in seems to favor thin girls, men still vary alot in their preferences

Answer 13

Individual preference. Yes, I agree most don't like fat girls, just like most girls don't like fat guys,, but,, again it goes back to individual expectations.

Answer 14

when the shallow guys get hitched to the pretty ones then you can find the mature and worthwhile ones who dont judge you by how thin or fat you are but for the person you are