I dont understand my dreams?

Question

Lately ive been having alot of dreams where i meet this really pretty girl that ive never seen or met in real life. always in the end of the dream i lose them. i dont understand. and by the way im a guy.

Answer 1

Everyone should check their dreams out on this website, I swear.. It's awesome! Self interpretation is the best.

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Answer 2

A pretty girl that disappears can represent lost hopes or dreams that ended or you lost due to no fault of your own. Your hopes are centered on finding a "pretty girl" to find and capture for your own, much as you seek success or financial boons for your own. It is common for something beautiful like a person, a special place or object to represent happiness from monetary success or success in love, the fairy tale "happily ever after" once your quest has been achieved.

More rewarding but more difficult is finding contentment with what you have now. When was the last time you ate out and had.......just enough? When was the last time your clothes or dinner or _____ was..... just right? Too often we hear "I will be happy when _______ happens." What is holding you back from being happy........right now with what you have right now?

By focusing only on your "dream" girl, you miss the real people right in front of you. I'll bet there is a not quite so pretty but real terrific girl right in front of you that you don't see because she doesn't fit your personal mold. I was passed over by sooooooo many guys because I don't look like a hottie. They never talked to me long enough to find out I could camp, backpack, waterski, boogie board, or go fishing - all they wanted in their life was their arm trophy Barbie doll. I know of several guys on their second marriages because they married their Barbie dolls and found out those Barbie dolls not only had all the stuff they demanded more stuff and more stuff and were never happy and behaved very badly when they didn't get their way every time. Their second wives are not so beautiful but have learned how to be more patient and more giving, and the guys are finally finding happiness in what love really can be when it is shared and not taken for granted.

So maybe instead of seeking out your perfect girl, take a chance on a not so perfect girl and find a kinder heart instead.

Answer 3

Your dreams are a true reflection of your inner wishes (and fears)- she represents an ideal of a perfect girl, but, hey, there's nothing that says you're entitled to *keep* her. Look around, and you will see that's how it is in real life, OK?

Answer 4

Im guessing your dreams are telling you to be ready to lose something in real life.