I dont understand my girlfriend, i need help.?

Question

I love my girlfriend to death, and i do everything to try to satisfy her all the time. i cook dinner almost every night, i wash the dishes, do her laundry and support her in anything she wants to do. i even doodle hearts and sweet things on our dry erase board for her. The situation is all cause of one night. She got all dressed up and s**y and i was extremely tired that day and just couldnt go with it. So she says. After that one night she's been making my life a bit miserable when it comes to time to go to sleep. Shed rather go to sleep in the living room because she sees it as getting back at me for not having s*x with her that one night. I actually like going to sleep with her cuase i feel better knowing shes there. but she knows that i feel akward sleeping alone at night so she does this to "get back at me", the reason that got me to post this tonight is because me and her got into a huge argument tonight after a few drinks of wine in the living room. everything was going great. But out of left field, a drop of a hat she flipped the situation and blew up at me. because i asked her to go to bed with me. We argued about her pretty much not getting it how she wants it (even though ive only rejected her once) and me getting it how i want it every time i want, and the whole time shes been sleeping in the living room which has been only about 3 times was her getting back at me for not having s*x with her that one time. Im wondering why is all that necessary and why does someone have to do all that. Im so confused i dont even know what to do. i told her I understand why she is mad and i get the point but there is no reason why shes got to take it overboard. then i made the huge mistake of telling her she was acting like a immature kid, and to stop acting like a 12 year old with her little ***** fits. (i didn't say ***** though) * Yup, Oops* She has a big deal about someone telling her shes being immature in anyway. for the record. Someone help me out, am i in a hellhole relationship or can this get worked out. Ive been the most generous man i can be, the most thoughtful i can be, the most helpful i can be, but i s***w up one time and she condemns me for it....

Answer 1

mayb she's over you..

if she really liked you then she would work it out and understand how you felt.

mayb she's selfish and has other things on her mind at the moment and cant see how caring and loving you are. mayb there's too many negitive thourghts going through her mind , maybe she's thinking because you have rejected her that time you'll do it again?

do something outrageous for her, take her on a holiday , both pay , spend some time together, and see how you both feel towards each other, im sure you both will figure it out

Answer 2

push her buttons a little, one night tell her im sorry, i love you and walk away go to sleep make it seem as if your miserable the first couple of nights then began throwing off the feeling that you are getting tired of the fight ignore her if she says a bad comment give her a sympathetic look then walk away this will make her question if she is taking it to far. begin being happy again for no reason this drives them crazy walk out of a room if she goes in i did this with my girlfriend and know she never punishes me by s*x but by not food sux but id chose s*x over food you could always go to mcD's lol but good luck man