I dont understand what they are doing?

Question

im a typical 16 year old i love drinking, goin out with my mates etc etc.HOWEVER i also spend some time with a lady i met about 6 years ago.she is 50 this year,and is disabled,so i help her out with day to day things at weekends and whenever i can get over.she is like an extra mum to me, and supports me a lot.NOW FOR THE FAMILY.i have 2 sisters,katie is 18 and chelsea is 9.these 2 cant stand me.chelsea bites me and rings up people telling them i tried to hit her while im looking after her.katie has stabbed me twice and again just generally hates me.when i speak to my mum and dad about these problems i get in trouble for lieing.THEY NEVER BELIEVE ME!katie is my dads favourite and chelsea my mum's, so i dont have much chance.because of this,wen i met my older friend,i had no trust in adults.she has given me more trust in them,and now i do speak to my parents,not much,but more than i used to.now,my sisters like attention,and will go 2 any lenghts to get it. last year katie accused one of my best friends of rape.he was found not guilty, but the point was he had never been round my house!or met my sister.i didnt not support my sisiter throughg her court case.am i wrong for this?my sisters both get on very well with my grandparents too.my grandparents think im a thief, on drugs and a violent person.it upsets me to know this as i know deep down its not true, but again, speaking to them gets me nowhere.my older friend, listens to my problems and helps me out as much as possible,and loves me like im her daughter.my grandparents lie to both me and to my older friend, to try and get us 2 to stop talking to each other and stop seeing each other.luckily our relationship is water-tight at the momoent. but im really worried they will suceed soon.please help me i really dont understand what has and is happening!what are they trying to do? am i wrong? i have loads of friends my age too, we are always out drinkin, clubbing and shopping. I just dont understand why they all dislike me soo much, i am trying to do what is right by helping anna, (50), i thought people would be pleased but they just throw it all back at me. im 16 and just starting college. i dont know how much more of this i can handle though. any suggestions please help me

Answer 1

start planning and working on how you will get away from your family in two years, stop drinking, that wont get you to uni, but you can do plenty of it once there.  

Answer 2

You tried talking to them and it failed.

I think you should get Social Services invovled, or at least phone the NSPCC on 0800 1111.

Goodluck sorting it out bud.

Answer 3

Repost with punctuation and paragraphs and maybe someone will be able to read this.

Answer 4

my heart goes out to you, it really does seem like you are in a bit of a pickle.

firstly,you really need to talk to someone who is qualified to advise you on the best thing to do, childline is a good option, or even ur doctor can give you some contacts.

secondly, you really shouldn't be out drinking and clubbing when your 16, thats asking for trouble

thirdly, well done you in helping anna, thats very charitable of you, it's good to see that all the nasty treatment you have recieved and are recieving hasn't made you too bitter and twisted, as it easily could have

good luck hun x

Answer 5

Sounds like you all have a lot of growing up to do.

Especially with the drinking and clubbing.

A little more maturity would help.