I dont want a arguement?

Question

before my daughter was born her dad died she is now five i was grieving for 2 years and still am now i met my new husband when she was 3 but she is nearly 6 so i have been with him nearly 3 years we have a son who is 2 and i am 2 months pregnant with my 3rd baby well i am taking her to see her dads parents and family but me and his family don't get on that well and if she knows i have moved on she may cause a argument especially now i am pregnant and i have started showing what should i do then any ideas please help me !!!!!! =)

Answer 1

I should think that they should be happy that you have moved on, as you cannot grieve for the rest of your life, you should say to them that this little girl is their grand-daughter their sons daughter, and she is just an innocent child and just because you and them don't get along they should not take it out on their grand-daughter, and if they care for her then they should be adult enough not to spoil the time with her by causing upsets, and they should put any problems they have with you behind them for her sake. I should imagine that you are still a young woman and they should understand that you cannot grieve forever over their sons death, and you are untitled to move on, i wish you well and good luck.

Answer 2

You need to tell her. The longer that you wait the more mad she will get. Even though she is young she needs to know this stuff. Your going to hate yourself if you don't.