I dont want kids. help please!!!?

Question

i dont want kids, ever. i will adopt, but babies hurt, are annoying, and only 1 % of time are cute >.<

i want to have a vesctimy, but i don't know what they do when i get one, so please, tell me what the processes is when they do. and any safe ways to be come sterile please.

Answer 1

i agree with the one contributor, it will be okey if you are g*y or don&#039;t want to get married because you may met a  girl and marry her and she loves kids to the max.. You might just dissapoint her..So don&#039;t rush i know some parents who didnt like kids and wished they did&#039;nt make thier own kids because they are too lazy to take care of kids..  does your parents did&#039;nt like you when they had you? did they say you were only 1% of time are cute??? they should not make you if they say that.. just curious

Answer 2

wow!  

Answer 3

Children are the most beautiful people in the world.  It is a wonderful experience.  I am a mother of 3 children, two teenagers and an infant.  Don&#039;t let people or other things discourage you from having children.  Not everything will be peaches and cream, trust me, I know.  And having children may not be for everyone.  

How old are you anyway?  I&#039;m not trying to get into your business but if you are a young individual then there are things you need to take into consideration.  If for instance you are a teenager between the age of 13 and 19 then I live your life.  Please don&#039;t be in a rush to have s*x or children.  You have to live before you can really care for someone else.  Having children is a job, without getting paid and a very serious commitment. Give yourself time to grow and make something of yourself because once you bring a child into this world or adopt you still have a major responsibility.  Now even into your early 20&#039;s you still have to think about how you will care for the child(ren).  I say get an education first.  Make sure you able to financially, physically, emotionally,and stable able to take care of the child or children you desire to have or adopt. Life is a lesson in itself.  If you are not ready to have children, then take all the precautions in order not to have children.  No s*x is the best answer I can give you, that way you know for sure you wont have any.  Use protection because AIDS is so real.  There are other diseases out there that will cause you to be sterile and also can kill.  Be smart and make the right decision.  I hope that I was able to help you in some kind of way. Take care, in always BE SAFE and SMART. ;-)

P.S.

Think about the fact that you want to have the procedure on getting sterile. That will change your life forever. Having the procedure to be  sterile is not reversible.  Who knows later down the line you may want to change your mind and have children some day.  There are plenty of Planned Parenthood places that you can go to that will possibly help you.  

Again take care, BE SMART &amp; be SAFE :-)

Answer 4

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vasectomy

go to the site, might help

Answer 5

i no you seem so certain on this, but i think you should give it couple more years.. you never know you may just want one in a few years time..

without knowing your relationship status or anything.. does your partner want kids? or maybe you will fall in love woth someone and get married and decide to have kids, dont just go for the snip straight away.

im sure you can google the process.

Answer 6

theres a type of medication you can take for that

talk to your doctor

Answer 7

aww that&#039;s sad the way you think but its your right to think this ...

Anyways i have heard that most docs wont give you a vasectomy unless you are married or in a long term relationship and have at least one child...

Maybe you just have to meet the right woman to have your child ...

good luck  

Answer 8

They give you a local shot in your s*****m, then they make a small incision, then cut the tube that holds the sperm and tie it. You&#039;ll have to shave that morning and you can&#039;t drive home, but its an out patient procedure and can be done in a regular doctors office. Its a lot safer than your woman getting her tubes tied, and in your case, if you change your mind it CAN be reversed, they just undo what they did.

Answer 9

they set up a consultation first..grope your balls to see if they can find your vas deferens.  then they set up another appointment to do the procedure, if they determined during the consultation that they can successfully do so.  during the procedure, they either cut the sac open or they use a tool to puncture it and then they cut and tie the vas deferens or they coterize the tubes after cutting them.  sometimes they use a laser to make the incision.  It all depends on which doctor you have and the methods they prefer to use.  you will be under some anesthesia of course, but you will have to wear supportive underwear and supposedly put ice down there.  good luck