I dont want to be shy anymore?

Question

i want to be funny and outgoing how do i do it?

any thing will help im gunnah try it all

Answer 1

oh i was the same way im 14 but when i was 13 i was shy you basically have to force it out without making it look like you trying to hard . when you are aound you friends just talk or even boys just let go  

Answer 2

I know this sounds bad, but fake it til you make it.

I was like that at the beginning of high school and you know what? people don't always like the most outgoing people - sometimes they're also the most obnoxious - so dont feel like you have to force it all the time. But just start out making a couple jokes and such to get people laughing. And start speaking up in class discussions and such.

Just think that you are outgoing and confident and eventually, you will convince yourself - and others- that you are.

good luck! =]

oh and it helps to have a a really solid group of friends to back you up and encourage you!