I doubt she is mentally depressed.?

Question

I think my friend is mentally depressed, in our relation i once raised hand on her and before, sometimes may be all times i neglected her feelings. This happened 5 months ago, and now she is in a position that she lost hope in everything, love ,marriage and even friendship, I tried to my level best to convince her, but in vain .Now what i should do? leave her alone for afew days? please help me

Answer 1

Just make her feel that u r always besides her for allt eh things let it be good or bad...discuss abt the wrong things u did with her when u find her calm...never leave her alone..u have realized teh things what ever u did was wrong let her also know...this situation comes in everybody's life but then when u realize what u did (good or bad) she will also have that thinking that u know her much better and take care of hers in the same way what she wanted before ...she will love u more...dotn worry

Answer 2

you should walk away from her and let her heal.

c'mon. she deserves that, right?

Answer 3

Depressed people should not be left alone.  She is not in a position to motivate herself.  Plan some activities (shopping/concert/bowling) .  Maybe she should go to her family doctor and he could prescribe some meds (although personally I don't like to use them)

The fact is her "lost hope" of love, marriage is not as she wished it, there are better things around the corner.  Things happen for a reason and  usually in the end, for the best.

Answer 4

Let her work through her issues herself.  If she wants your help, she will come to that realization and tell you.  Start thinking about psychiatric treatment.  If you notice her behavior changing for the worse then make a move.  Good luck my friend.

Answer 5

you can leave her alone but not lonely. be there always to help her.

she needs support. take care