I dream of having an affair with an older man?

Question

Its creepy, like a figment of my imagination. He doesnt exist, more of a made up dream, and hes definitely a good 20 years older than me. Maybe its because of me watching Nip?Tuck, put ideas in my head, but i dream it every night, and it gets pretty bad.... like bad bad. And the guys married? I mean, im not a homewrecker, but..... its my dream. Any ideas whats going on?

Answer 1

it means ur vag is getting dry and soon enuf the only thing u will have left 2 **** is old men. hurry and get married lady

Answer 2

The dreams likely results from some type of inner conflict you are having since you you describe the dreams as "bad bad".  This would suggest something sexual and thus, likely the bad mean you enjoy the sexual adventures between the two of you.  The fact that he is married further makes him untouchable thus adding another forbidden type feature to the dream.  You seems to be having several taboo type experiences in the dream and while in waking like  you don't like it, in the dream you enjoy it.

This would suggest some conflict in your life which you feel you should not be pursuing but you like it so you continue even though you know it is not good for you.  This could relate to a sexual relationship but could be a variety of other things too.  You have to decide what is in the best interests for you and guide you actions accordingly.

Let me know if this helps.

Answer 3

I think it means that you are looking for an old world style relationship/sexual relationship. Usually when younger women are with older men, they get a feeling of security. Maybe that's it.

Answer 4

your a sicko and a pervert thats whats going on and you need to go to a mental hospital to get help

Answer 5

maybe you're just curious about older men. You don't say how old you are.

Answer 6

Well, it could definitely have something to do with watching Nip/Tuck, if you do that shortly before bedtime. Sometimes when I leave my TV on, I'll dream of the characters in the programs or even commercials all night!

It is quite normal to have erotic dreams that are very different from what you'd enjoy in waking life... But I believe that the fact that you find the dreams disturbing rather than pleasurable is important.

Perhaps this is a way of externalizing some hidden fear? Could this have anything to do with a superior -- such as your boss or a teacher?