I dreamed that my boyfriend died....?

Question

I have been with my bf for 4 years now and there has been a lot going on including trying to have a baby, and we are waiting to hear about a possible house to buy, there has also been talk of marriage, now just the other night I dreamed that me and my bf were in my childhood home but it looked the same on the outside but different on the inside and none of my family lived there it was as if it was our house but its not, and then i walked inside to find him dead in his sleep, so I cried and then had a funeral and tried to kiss him to get him to wake up, and then after I kissed him again I woke up, It was such a vivid dream that I remember it even today which is 4 days later. Also I don't know if its a coincidence or not but we ordered chinese food, and my fortune was : your dream will come true , how creepy is that, and then his said something about change happening...what the heck could all this mean ?

Answer 1

It means you had a dream and you ordered Chinese food.

Seriously, don't look into it too much.

Answer 2

who knows, don't think many people here are psychologists

Answer 3

Dream interpretation scientists (lol we always have philosophical discussions about such stuff as this at school at breaktimes, im 13 ;)) have proven that if you dream about someone dieing, it means you care about them an awful lot. Also, fortune cookies and other novelty foods that are mass produced like that all say the same thing, I really wouldn't worry.

Your dream is quite a common one. Essentially the purpose of the dream is to get you to view your male side in a positive light. If you have heard of the Chinese Yin and Yang you will know that we have both male and female sides to ourselves. Our dreams will always try to keep these sides balanced so that we don't allow either side 'run' our lives. In your dream your boyfriend represents your male side. In a dream any man can represent this side of yourself. You pick this man because he would symbolize a male side you can be open and honest with. Him dying in the dream does not indicate his physical death but the death of an aspect of yourself. Because of our upbringing we tend to be male in our approach to life (regardless of gender). This causes an imbalance and our dreams address it in several ways. Your dream is showing you what you are doing to yourself. Your true male side is dying. This is most likely a result of a poor relationship with your father as a child. The dream is then saying "Let the negative influence your father has/had over you die so that your true