I dumped my boyfriend and i've moved on but he is begging me to take him back...should i?

Question

my boyfriend cheated on me twice, both times i walked in on him and another woman. But after i chucked him he kept coming outside my house and singing to me with flowers. i thought guys only did this in the movies so i agreed to have dinner with him. he's changed, we had amazing s*x after wards and i am eager to get back with him. he has been so sweet i really think there is something about him. i know he has changed. i had dinner again with him 3 days ago and he met another woman he used to know and i got uncomfortable. she needed a lift home but on the way to her house we were talking and we decided to have a threesome...i felt uncomfortable but it was the best s*x i ever had. i want him back. am i in love again or do i just enjoy s*x with him???

Answer 1

I didn't read beyond your first sentence. h**l, NAW----don't take his trifiling behind back. Simple enough eh----

Answer my question in this same catergory about: Man Stealer...

BTW---you guys all sound like a bunch of FREAKS

Answer 2

gal let me put it straight to u- he will cheat and do it all ova again. u know wt they say once beaten twice shy. but then again its ur call, u shud know wt u want, irrespective of how any1 would view it. id back u up for watever decision u take. gud luck. take ur tym to re-define ur lyf and how u want ur relationship to be conducted. its a mind over matter kinda thing. wish u all the best oh and be brave.

Answer 3

He is your s*x buddy....not your lover!

Answer 4

Yea you defiently need to kick him to the curb, he will be expecting more freakyness from you and he obviously has not changed and never will.

Answer 5

I would move on because long term this guy is only using you for s*x and I'm sure thats not what you want to be a play thing. Be smart and get better than him.

Answer 6

Sounds like to me you have no self respect for yourself. You are misusing s*x. A threesome? How low can you degrade yourself. People need to have some values in todays world.

But to answer your question you shouldn't take him back. Hes not loyal and doesn't even love you. If he did he wouldnt even think about other girls. Another reason you shouldn't take him back is you're not ready for a relationship either. You need to sit down and think and ask yourself. Is this the person you really want to be? Would you want your daughter do this stuff? I'm sure your mom would dissapprove of this.

Answer 7

No!  He has PROVEN many times he can't be trusted.  Great s*x does not a 'relationship' make.  "Make-up" s*x IS amazing but people will tend to rely on it to keep a rocky relationship together.

If you can't trust him when you're not looking at him, what would happen during 'hard times' like if you were sick or injured or something?

The world's so big--there are so many different types of things/men to experience---why tie yourself down to one dirty, rotten, home-wrecking, scoundrel?  

Cut yourself loose, find others to have great s*x with!

Answer 8

Are you serious about this question you are asking? Because if you are you have issues. Do you value yourself as a person as a woman? Your so call man cheats on you not one time but twice...( which to me is one time too many...but to each his own) No reason would ever make up for what he did, he comes to your home with some flowers take you to get food and you take him back...saying this is the best s*x ever. He is playing you for stupid and what  makes it so bad is that you are aware of the situation and go along with it.. There is nothing wrong with enjoying s*x ( I hope all people do) But you need to draw the line somewhere and you are not. Since you had a 3 way with him...you just established the relationship that you will have with him, and it will only be a sexual one. Grow up and get real, and don't let him take you for another ride.

Answer 9

you walked in on him not once but twice!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

isn't that enough. I'm glad to see your heart can repair to flowers and the singing...don't you think it was planned that he saw this friend and started making "plans for a three some " what a coincidence...he takes you out just to make up and ends up having a three some...

just the fact that you that you gave him another chance and having a three   some with him doesn't make you in love with him your just in it for s*x...

if you do take him back just remember the saying ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER.....

Answer 10

maybe abit of both.. if he loved you he wouldnt of had a 3some with this other woman tho.. ?  

Answer 11

If its just s*x you crave stay with him but don't think you'll get a commitment out of him. You need to decide what you want and look after yourself.  

Answer 12

Its in lust.. Not in love..

Something is seriously wrong with you.. You know that right?

You wanna be with someone who is such a down right loser and then have the nerve to ask if your in love?

Why the f. uck would you even consider yourself in love with someone who is that low to the ground?