I dunno what to do.....big fight?

Question

My husband and I had a big fight tonight, which I'll admit was my fault...it's an issue I can't seem to let go of...anyway he got really mad and got in my face and just kept saying F*CK YOU over and over till I cried then he said good cry. I don't know what to do, how do you do that to someone you love? purposely make them cry and not even care?

Answer 1

He cares he's just upset. He needs to eventually learn not to use insulting or disrespectful words toward you. A man who doesn't respect his woman doesn't respect himself. Give him the silent treatment and he'll come around begging your forgiveness. But play a little hard to get. Good luck.

Answer 2

Give yourselves time to settle down.  Emotions are flying all over the place now and you handle yours a lot differently than he handles his, obviously.  But just give yourselves some time and see if you can work it out when the both of you have a level head.

Answer 3

If it was your fault, as you say, and it's an issue you can't let go of, you probably pushed the man to his limit and he snapped, as you said later.  It was your fault and what happened, though unfortunate, happened because of your actions.  Be humbled and stop trying to make it about poor little you.  Move on and try not to repeat the mistake.

Answer 4

B/C he was angry that's all especially if you were pissing him off.  Cool off and let him cool then talk about it.  This happend to me.

It will be alright!

Answer 5

Remember he is your husband but he is also human.We say things and do things when we are angry.Wait until you both have cooled off and are rational and have a talk with him about how you feel about what happened.Make sure to let him know never to disrespect you ever again by cursing at you and be stern about it so that he knows never to do that again.

Answer 6

Old saying that is very true... You always hurt the ones you love.

Answer 7

I as a guy myself can tell you that when being constantly pestered about the same thing in general causes men to get angry or aggravated but what he did was wrong and out of line.Talk to him about it and tell him how you feel and if he acts like he doesn't care give him the silent treatment and don't do anything he asks you to do for a couple days.That is how to get all guys to realize what the have done and to straighten up their act.

Answer 8

Ask him to never talk to you like that again or you walk.  You don't deserve that.  If he can't control his emotions, how do you know he won't hit you next time?  Just something to think about.  

Answer 9

Because he was to angry to care when he realizes what he has done he most likely will apologize and if not than hes just big fat jerk

Answer 10

It's possible to love someone and just lose your cool to the point of being cruel..it's not exactly healthy nor smart but it happens.

If you have an issue that you can't let go of..that's causing you & your husband to get into such horrible fights you need to find a way around it. Talk to someone if you have to..if you don't deal with it, it will happen again.

As for your husband..cut him a lil slack, I'm sure he didn't mean to hurt you, but like I said..tempers flare and people lose control at times..especially when pushed.