I fancy an Iman but he thinks im a bad girl?

Question

He thinks that i am bad because how i look!? im pretty lol nah i dont know why but he thinks so and i think hes so hot i wanna marry him, how should i do it!? :(

Answer 1

How old are you?

Answer 2

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, what's beauteous to you may be ugly to another and vice versa.  

Answer 3

Try to be a little demure, maybe? Attend masjid, be clean and behave with the decorum and grace of a Muslim lady. Maybe then you may attract him, or something even better. You'll learn the beauty and subtlety of Islam.

Also remember, don't marry on the basis of looks... it can be very misleading.  

Answer 4

Can't you get your parents to arrange a marriage?  Isn't that how it works?

Answer 5

have a reality check

Answer 6

strengthen your Iman.

Answer 7

ukay..

i would usually type no comment but....i mean this is new....

urrmm firstly please claify to us the way you look..

Answer 8

With his intellectual level, I'm sure he thinks you are a little below him.  Because of the way you are talking, you sound sort of empty and immature.  If he is a good imam, he doesn't even see your prettiness but obviously sees you for who you really are.

We do not go to the mosque to check out guys or imams.

( a woman is not even supposed to be seen in a mosque.  I wear niqab to the mosque if there is not a seperate entrance for women,)

Answer 9

Well first of all i think it's wrong to call an Imam hot, you should respect him just how you would expect a Man to respect you and not call you hot when you show yourself to be a respectable person.

Tell your parents, get them to arrange it. How do you know he thinks you're a bad person? Your looks don't tell you how good you are at heart. Better yourself, tell your parents and arrange for a rishta. If he accepts, then Mashallah you go girl lol. If not, then maybe a 'pretty' girl is not what he's after.

Even though, you should better yourself for Allah not a man you fancy. Yes it's good that he can make you a better person, but you have to feel it at heart and have the right intentions to actually be a better person.

Answer 10

Thats Easy Start being a good Girl

Answer 11

we dont call Imams "Hot".

And u Fancy him too!!