I fancy this boy.. he said he will go out with me if the girl he asked out says no? Our MSN conversation...?

Question

Okay heres how the conversation went...

Me: Hey (his name) I need to tell you something.

Me: But I'm not sure if I should tell you or not.

Him: Okay

Me: Basically I fancy you please don't take the mick, gotta go, Bye.

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Him: Hi again.

Him: Do you fancy me, I won't take the mick.

Me: Yah.

Him: How long have you fancied me for?

Me: I dunno, a month maybe?

Him: KL

Me: LOL

Him: Are you gonna ask me out?

Me: I dunno maybe LOL!

Him: Well I will probs go out with you if you do its just I asked out (her name) so I'll have to wait to see if she says no.

Me: (her second name)?

Him: Yeah.

Him: So I will probably go out with you if she says no.

Me: Okay.

Him: LOL.

Him: Love you LOL xoxo

Me: Love you too :P

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End Of Conversation.

So now does you guys reading that make any difference or shall I still not go out with him?

Thanks (:

Answer 1

see how it goes out. if he is going out with the girl let them be, and if he's not going out with her then date him. If he does cheat on you dump him automatically.  

Answer 2

thats freakin weird.

so hes gonna go out with a girl he doesnt like if she says yes??

what was the question?

Answer 3

Sounds like this guy likes to play around and manipulate girls. You can go out with him, but if I had money to bet on this, I'd bet you'd end up hurt and alone.

There are other guys who are more fun out there who won't mess around behind your back like this guy might.

Don't go out with this guy.

Answer 4

you use the word fancy that is awesome i am gonna use it now  

Answer 5

i dont think you should

cuz its like youre his second choice and you shouldnt settle for that

u gotta be his first and one and only choice

Answer 6

Here's another way to look at it.

The guy asked a girl out. So he committed himself. He's honouring that commitment until she releases him by saying 'no'. Then he's free. If she say's 'yes', he's doing the right thing by going out with her once - which is what he asked for.

Isn't the guy being a gentleman?

Steve

Answer 7

Better start fancying your vibrator

Answer 8

It is your wish.

If you are interested go.

if not avoid.

Answer 9

oh grow up.

why would you want to be sloppy seconds..he obviously doesnt like you. eh..he wants another girl..if he cant have her. he'll settle for you. god

Answer 10

You already know the answer. The fact that you even posted this, gives yourself an answer. The answer lies within you.

Answer 11

Just be patient. Wait until the girl replys and then you'll see what happens. If  you like him a lot wait, if you don't move on to other boys. Simple.

Answer 12

i wouldnt...sounds like you're just back up...

"if the other girl says no..ill go out with you."

sounds liek back up...sorry.

Answer 13

no

Answer 14

well he doesn't fancy you enough to have asked you out first - he's asked another girl out and he is waiting to see what she says.

If she says yes, then he will go out with her, not you.  He will "probably" go out with you if she says no.

Do you want to be second best?

Answer 15

he is not really interested in you or he would have asked you out first not second. find someone who is interested in you only. good luck

Answer 16

Go with your gut babe.

Answer 17

how pathetic you should know what you will do.. try tossing a coin