I fancy this girl but.. does she feel same way?

Question

I been at college for like 4days now lol, and these this girl I kinda fancy shes not in my class but my mate knows her and we kinda hang around in a group but I haven't spoken to her vise versa, I do fancy her cuz shes hot LOL and seems really nice but I don't think she likes me tbh like we gived eye contrat and we look away and shes not talked to me :( is there anyway to know without asking her lol, I don't like feelin rejected prefer not to say, and I can't ask my friends to ask her like do u fancy anyone cuz ill get all embrassed cuz they say who it is cuz there spoons lol I know I shud just talk to her but plz any info can help...

Answer 1

you need to talk to her - if you're watching her to see if she likes you but you haven't actually spoken to her, she might just think you're a bit odd. start a conversation - can be as mundane as you like to start off - "how are you finding your courses?" etc - easy to answer so a good start. then just try and chat to her a bit. then maybe a bit more the next day. after a few days you will be able to tell more easily if she likes you - if she seems happy to chat to you and doesn't run away every time she see's you, it's a good start :-) if she is a little shy, you might need to give it more time - be patient. then, when you've got to know her a bit more, maybe ask her out. you can't tell for sure if she likes you until you ask, but if you give her time to get to know you a bit first, she's less likely to refuse you straight off from simple shock.

good luck

Answer 2

Have a conversation with her first, if it seems like she is interested in the conversation, ask her out on a date or get her number so you can talk about the topic more. As time goes on (lets say a week) ask her out on a date

Answer 3

Try to talk to her normally and see how she reacts.  Friendship is the first step, and then see if it can turns into a relationship.

Best of luck.  

Answer 4

MRS G do u think its easy to say it ? its easy to say "Just say it" but the guy stressed he asked for some ideas! so heres mine idea of telling jokes when u hang around with her make eye contact and make SURE SHES NOT USING YAHOO , joke ;)

Answer 5

You could plan a party invite her or the whole group, you could also just ask her out. It's only been four days, but a lot of girls are shy.......make it known that your avaiable..when you see her say something like hey there cutie... stuff like that or just as we americans say " get the balls to just ask the girl or tell her you like her"

Answer 6

Stop beating about the Bush .... Ask her !