I feel Like my friends don't respect me?

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I feel Like my friends don't respect me?

I am now a senior in high school and I have my circle of friends but at times I feel like they don't respect me. I feel like they take advantage to me I have tried to be a good friend but I now feel like it doesn't help they are mean to me one day then nice the next day I don't get it. They also never include me in anything like they all get together and never invite me but I ask them a lot and they make an excuse they say they are my friends and would do anything for me but it sure doesn't feel like it I want to have friends for when I graduate high school but I don't know what to do anymore I feel like I am wasting my time

Answer 1

those just sound like girls who are using you.

i wouldn't waste anymore time on them if i were you.

Answer 2

Sorry to hear about that. High School is a hard time in people's lives.

If your friends are using you and lie to you, then that is not good. No one wants to be in relationships that are full of mistrust, lies, and disrespect. That's one reason why people break up.

At the same time, if you are spending time with your friends because you are afraid that you won't have friends after graduation, then you are using them too, and that is just as bad as if you were lying or being mean to them. Then, you can't complain about how they treat you because you chose to stick with them. Friendships are all about choice. It's your choice if you want to get hurt or not.

In regards to speaking to them about this, I don't know if I can say that that is a good idea. But do what you feel is right and be prepared if it doesn't go well.

Good luck.

Answer 3

I feel the exact same way, my bff yesterday on the first day of school was so excited to see me and wanted me to be in all her classes and the next day she barely even talked to me. And it seemed as if all my other friends were ignoring me too. You can still be friends with these girls, but find some better friends who like you and include you in their plans. Give your other friends an idea of how you feel when you exclude them from your birthday party or a trip to the mall.

Thats exactly what i'm going to do with my friends. I seriuosly hate being ignored and disrespected. Everyones a human and so are you.

Answer 4

Talk to them about it. Say what you said here. You will be glad you did. Sometimes it's a misunderstanding. For example, I was just miserable last year because this was happening to me too. Turns out, my friends were planning a surprise party for me! Good luck!!

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