I feel as if I would be better off dead?

Question

There is nothing on this earth for me apart from my cat.

I love her so much but just feel like topping myself and leaving a note for my neighbour to look after her, I know she would take good care of her.

I dont have any family or friends so no one would be affected by my death.

Answer 1

Don't do it. Life has it's ups and downs but you need she S****y bits to appreciate the good bits. Anyway, families are a pain in the **** and friends always want something from you. Stick with the cat, cats are cool.

Answer 2

I've been there Frankie.

Whats happened to bring it on?

I think animals are the smartest creatures on Earth

I'll be affected by your death.

I've just made you a contact

I think you may need some help though, you seem stuck as your previous questions show.

Answer 3

Iam sorry that you feel this way. The best advice i can give you is to get yourself out in the world and make some friends you will suprised at how many good people you will come across who will like nothing better than to spend time with you.

There is plenty on this earth for you, you just have to seek it. Death is not the answer trust me if you feel that this is your only hope please talk to someone about it. :)

Answer 4

It sounds like you reached to connect with others and feel you have  been treated not right or got your heart broken. If we all felt that way being rejected and lonely, we all would have committed suicide in our teen and twenty something years. To live is to risk getting hurt, sometimes badly hurt. But what is the alternative? That is why you might be feeling the way you do. Get back to being connected to the world. Be a friend first to others, if they don't befriend you, then move onto someone else and be a friend to them.  You will be allright, just keep trying. David Burns has a book called Feeling Good and the Feeling Good Handbook. Try your local bookstore, I know it is in stock.

He also has a website. You just might seeing things with the wrong filter. The book addresses ten forms of twisted thinking that can make people feel bad.  Try the exercises in his book and perhaps you will have a change in your mindset. Live long and prosper and may the force be with you.

Answer 5

no friends thats horrible....check out the nearest Methodist church and singles activities and talk to the minister....

write me sometime at this

[e-mail]

i dont go to this one everyday but pray now dear...and dont stop

Answer 6

Please, please don't do it. I felt the exact same way, ended up in the hospital half dead, then finally realized everything I had to live for. Please don't do it, you'll be so glad you didn't later on in life, I promise you. I swear.

Answer 7

i often think like that, so i'm not going to sit here and say 'awwww' and play the harp for you.

you just need to find your own path/direction in life, travel/meet someone climb mount everest or something,

don't worry your not alone i need to find the path too.

Answer 8

I know this may be the most cliche answer that someone can give and plus it's easier said than done, but why don't you do something to change your life?

Do something dramatic... go socialize with more people by .. maybe not even acting yourself.

Sometimes you almost have to be fake for the situation to become authentic.

Meaning, go to work or whereever you might go to meet people, and just start a random conversation like you normally wouldn't - be really forward etc..

I mean what can you lose? - you go back to the life you live right now.

Changing a routine in life, etc is definitely easier said than done, but h**l, do it for yourself.

Answer 9

Why would you be better off dead? Do you think that will solve all your problems and feelings.

Tackle these feelings head-on and prove to the world that you are not a quitter.

Please go find a support group as soon as you can and you will find help there and friends.

All the best - I know you can get through this please do not do anything stupid.

Answer 10

How old are you?  Do you have a Job?  Do you go on the street? do

you & your neighbour speak to each others?. I guess that you 2 speak

because you would not want to leave the cat with her so @ least you

have her so what is your problem? are you looking for attention from other people?. I think you would feel much better if you go & fiend a Job &

get out of the house and meet with other people while you are earning some money & you would be surprised to see how you feel good of your self. Stop looking for attention and starting things to help your self

GOOD BY UNTIL YOU START HELPING YOUR SELF OK.

Answer 11

I may be young but a lot of people said my advice helps, especially older people. The reason being is that I've been through what most people shouldn't go through in a life time, and I use that to help people. I've only just turnt 18 and thinking about writing a will now because of health problems. I've lost a lot of people but sometimes what does help is helping others using your life experiences to tell them they're not alone. It helps me, and maybe it would you because it's knowing you've helped someone else that maybe in your shoes. So in some terms in can help save a life.

So i know it may be hard, life is hard, but try and use your personal experience of life to help others like yourself. If they see that you make sense and change their mind, and live life happier, then you can too.

Good luck and I hope all goes well.