I feel as if everyone hates me?

Question

My friends kind of hate me, my mom always complains and says I am no good (like that I always am smart talking), my dad is never home, by siblings don't care about me, and the only people I think that like me are my grandma and cousins. Help? How can I convince myself my family and friends love me?

Answer 1

Your not alone. There are many young people who have been treated as if they are outsiders looking in. You have to realize only one thing. Think in the pronoun of...I......I love me because I'm me, I am worth the weight of gold because God Don't Make Junk, I can be whoever I want to be, I can overcome all obstacles that come my way because I choose too. I have special qualities that make me an individual human being, I can do whatever I set out to do, I am unique in that God has made noone else like me...I am special

You need to redefine friends...these folks are not your friends if they beliitle you, talk about you behind your back, etc.

Your mom has gotton so used to talking down to you that she probably doesn't realize how she is hurting you. Mom's should not talk to any of her children that way, but let this be a lesson for you to learn. If it hurts you so much, think of if you do the same thing to someone else how that would hurt them

If you can talk to grandma, ask her how she could help you build your self esteem. That's what you need right now.

Your cousins see the specail qualitities that you have and accept you for who you are...because you are you.

You cannot make people love you, Continue to be you, the best you can be and don't worry about everything else. One day, these things will be of the past and when you try out the new confident you others will see this. Only you can be who you can be...no one else.

Don't forget the pronoun ....I....Good Luck to you, hold your head high because I promise you....God don't make junk

Answer 2

Well to be honest with you, your friends are still your friends, they haven't stopped including u in things right? if so they care about u cuz if they didn't they wouldnt be around. i know your siblings don't hate you because no matter what u do they will always be there for u, but only if u are there for them. your mom and dad don't hate u either ibet, why don't utalk to them and tell them how you feel. when they see they made the impression that they hate u on you they will reassure you of their love. maybe u just hate yourself thats the problem

Answer 3

you know they do. your just having a bad day

Answer 4

I had the same feeling at the start of summer and I realized that I just was being me and everything went back to normal trust me it happened to me so ya I got over it

Answer 5

You shouldnt have to convince yourself,they should convince you. Your mom and family love you,they may not show it but they truly do and would be saddened if something happened to you.And for the friends..well just find new ones if they dont care