I feel as if guys understand me more???

Question

I'm not a tomboy, I'm just kind of a jock/nerd.

I'm good at sports, and I'm really smart.

I'm not l***o or anything, because I'm undeniably attracted to guys, but I just like hanging out with guys more. Like- if I could pick, I just might pick guys to hang with for a day and girls for like a half day??

I don't know why but guys just understand me more and girls I just tell a lot to.

Why am I like this? is this weird?

by the way i also make baseball analogies all the time. And basketball ones. But I'm really samrt. I like being around guys way more. I guess I'm more comfortable?

Please help. thanks in advance. Please no mean comments. Thanks!

Answer 1

You probably get along with guys because they like confident girls that won't stoop down to be a "stupid girl" to get them to like them. They like you because you're different, and you're comfortable with who you are, which is simple enough for them to understand and admire. It's not weird, it's better, in my opinion, than having girl friends because sometimes girls get into fights over petty things and it just doesn't turn out well.

Answer 2

It could be because guys are more direct usually and girls are more secretive. My sister likes hanging out with guys more because if they have a problem with you, they tell you as opposed to girls who gossip about you and say they would never say that if you found out. There's really nothing wrong with it at all. Guys just happen to be more direct about things.

Answer 3

this is normal, because sometimes girls just are your partner for being nice to you or being by you side cause your like them, but guys are there to give advice  cause they wannab be close to you and you wanna be close to them  

Answer 4

I know heaps of girls that prefer male company.  Girls (can be!!) bitchy, back stabbing and manipulative and there's always a need to compete especially when they're in groups (or all female workplaces **shudder**)

Personally, the girls that have more male friends than less tend to be more easy going and a lot more fun to be around.

"why am I like this?" - It's not a disease! or wierd! You just get on better with guys - No problems with that here!

Answer 5

No mean comments?

No wonder you get along with guys.