I feel as if no one listens anymore, please help!?

Question

Ok I always have to do everything around the house which isnt fair on me as I have school work to do.

My parents always blame things on me but most of the time it's my brother.

They have accused me of being anorexic cos i dont eat much at meal times. But i'm not im just trying to watch what i eat.

I feel so angry sometimes with them that i self harm, it just makes the pain drift out of me. I have tried talking to them but they say im stupid and shouldnt go against them.

What can I do?

Answer 1

You really need to talk to your family. Point out that now you're at an age when you are getting a lot more school work to do at home you just can't cope with that and housework too. You need an outlet for all your anger too, maybe you could take up some kind of physical activity to de-stress a bit? If your parents continue to call you stupid you may need to seek support from school or from a relative such as a grandparent. It sounds as though you have been cast as the family scape goat, and it really has to stop.  

Answer 2

talk to them, if that doesn't work then talk to a professional @ your school. Then in due time talk to your parents with the professional present.  

Answer 3

ok everybody has to help out at times around the house i had to, i no its a pain and you feel like its not appershated bu my god it is, your parents work, cook,clean,look after you. and that thing about they blame things on you when its your bothers falut is what you have to do is talk to him and tell him to back off! i no its hard bu put yourself in ya parnets shoes, you come home from school and do ya work and watch tv or go on the computer and go out with friends, when your parents come home from work there cleaning, washing, shopping, cooking tea, paying bills, looking after u2. just be a little gratefull

Answer 4

Yu Really Need 2 Talk 2 Dem ...

Explain 2 Dem ... !!!

Answer 5

Leave this page open on your computerand go out. Hopefully they will walk past and read it and realise how you're feeling :) x

Answer 6

tell them everything you just said.