I feel as though my friend used me :(?

Question

ok so basically... my good friend allie asked me to go to the movies with her if her dad drove us there and my mom pickeds us up and drove her home. i said yes, and told her my other friend was gonna go too. when allie got there she met up with her other friend and decided they were just gonna hang at the movie plaza and find their boyfriends. me and my bestfriend were mad that i still had to give her a ride home after she ditched us. why should my mom drive her home if she didnt even spend time with us and didnt see the movie. i feel like she just used me as a way to see her boyfriend and like she doesnt even realize how mad i am about it? any suggestions or tips on how to say no! when she asks to go again. this is the second time she has used me for a ride to the movies and met up with her boyfriend. this time she acted like she wanted to see the movie but she just ditched us then when i tried finding her after, we needed to wait 20 minutes for her bf to get back so she could kiss him goodbye. ? waste of my time. she could just get her own ride then i wouldnt be mad. am i over reacting or do i have a good reason to be annoyed?

Answer 1

idk.

Answer 2

You have a GREAT reason to be annoyed and if I were you I would give her the silent treatment. Also tell her how annoyed you got and how rude it was to ditch you.  

Answer 3

I think you should invite her to the movies and stuff and then when she ditches you leave early and then you can call her parents and be like is allie home she was at the movies with me then she went with her boyfriend and when i was leaving home i couldnt find her,i wonder if shes still at the movies with her boyfriend..lol

Answer 4

You have a good reason to be annoyed but she might be thinking that her BF is more important then you and since she gave you a ride she might believe that you have to give her one. I suggest just saying your busy or something when she asks you again or you can just tell it to her face whats annoying you and if she doesn't care then you have to ask yourself is she really your friend anymore or are you her tool?

Answer 5

That's a very good reason to be annoyed and or upset. I would get extremely upset if I was used as well. Maybe you should try talking to your friend about the current situation. In my opinion I really hate it when I'm used for something. If you're the kind of person that can't say no just remember what she did to you and just say no.  

Answer 6

you have every right to be annoyed! my friend did that to me last halloween and i was soooo mad.

if she was a good friend, tell her that bugged you.

if not, dont hang out with her any more.

But definitlry don't put up with that.

Answer 7

just say no to her its suprsing how simple it is lol

Answer 8

You should be clear from your side. Truth and clarity always make your self strong and confident. True friends always understand the situation.