I feel bored with me family?

Question

i'm married and i have 2 kids, beautiful i thank my god becuz i have good wife and mother for my kids, but i feel bored, i feel like i want to do something new, i don't know what i want, sometimes i want to go out to dance and drink and meet new woman but i never did it, but i want to do it.

what do u think about all that. i'm going mad or what??? please if u have an answer or advice let me know..

thank u all

Answer 1

This is not healthy thinking looks like you need to get a hobby but not with other women or guys that still party at the bars/dance im not saying stop going to clubs but involve the family golf, swimming at the beach go for a bike ride and picnic, festivals just watch your wondering eyes lol be a good hubby and dad to your kids they are always watching you as their hero in life matters.

Answer 2

My husband went through that this summer, too... just wilded out! I would have happily "gone there" with him. Now... we can "go there," but there was so much pain and drama to get an understanding. Really take her out and talk to her about it... communicate this to her. Go to a hot concert or a s**y show, go to dance clubs where there is a lot of good people watching and DATE your wife. Get her some new lingerie... make sure it is the right size. Hope you can get it together without causing pain and drama. Marriage is precious and your wife is a queen. Be a king and stay a good man.Take it from a good wife who will never be the same again, but is learning a very hard lesson. Girls wanna still have fun, too!

Answer 3

Why dont you pick up your wife at a club! Have her get all dolled up the way she did when you were dating and the two of you go to a nice club or bar separately and try and pick her up. She'll probably look so hot that other guys will hit on her and you'll love seeing other men want what you know you've already got. Just walk over to her, ask her to dance and flirt with her all night. You get to go out and "pick up a woman" and your wife gets to be romanced and feel special!!

Answer 4

I bet your wife feels exactly the same.  Surprise her with a s**y night out (of course without the kids).  Let her take her time getting ready, buy her some new undies you would like her to wear for you, take her out and get HER smashed!  Have fun with her like the good ole' days.  It'll make you appreciate her more. Believe me, casual s*x can be fun, but, there is NOTHING in this world like the security of a family at home who's yours and yours alone and you are theirs and theirs alone.  I think what you are feeling is natural. We all feel it sometimes, but you have to always try and remember your wife is the only woman who really thinks YOU are all that, be proud of her and having her and learn to be spontaneous with her!  Good luck.

Answer 5

No you are not going mad.  This is a perfectly normal feeling.  Go out and have a good time, have a few drinks, go to new places... but include your wife - surprise her with something a little out of the ordinary for you two as a couple - this may help your feelings of boredom and rekindle your relationship to bring a little excitement to your everyday home life as well.  Make a once a week date night or once every 2 weeks just mark it on the calendar and have childcare all taken care of - it will be a blessing on your whole family when both parents are happy :)

Answer 6

This is what happens after awhile... cuz it becomes routine, the same stuff day after day..

so its normal, now acting on it is another thing...

It always seems like after awhile that you are missing out

Answer 7

read a book, get a hobby, jeez, there are plenty of things to cure boredom!!!

Answer 8

find a sitter and go do new things with your wife but do not go outside marriage

Answer 9

Why don't you just go out drinking with your wife, if you go out and meet a women things might become tempting and I'm sure you don't want to loose your family over something that's not worth it right?

Answer 10

Then go out and have some fun and meet new woman but be discreet.

Answer 11

You state that you are bored with your family, right? Aren't you part of that family? The kids can't conjure up fun, so it's up to you and your wife to do so. The fact that you state that you don't know what you want doesn't help us help you. Your mentioning wanting to meet a new woman says that you are bored with your wife, not your family. You have to figure out EXACTLY what it is you want and then discuss this with your wife.

Answer 12

Live is a wonderful adventure if you see it that way. If you see it as boring it is that too. Be thankful for the things you have because if they were gone you would wish you had your life back. Make things new with your wife. She is sticking by you and raising your family. Stick by her.  

Answer 13

Why don't you take your wife out? Get a babysitter and go have a good time with her. Try to find things you like to do together and do them. It's always nice to have time with the children and family time but if you don't nurture your marriage, it will likely go stale. What ever you do, don't cheat. You'll lose everything and your kids will resent the h**l out of you.