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Recently in my group of friends, most of them have been ignoring me and totally excluding me. So, I talked to one of them about it, and they yelled at me telling me I overeacted. Over the next few weeks they sent me hatemail, along with another girl in my friend group. They said really nasty things...and anyways one of them who I have known for a long time apologized and was so sorry. She called me up and said she really didn't mean to ignore me. I believed her. Then, this new schoolyear, the girls who had sent hatemail suddenly start acting nice to me again, and my friend whom I've known for so long, is buddies with them, and acts like they never were jerks to me. (FYI they never apologized.)
So now, the friend I've known for such a long time, sits with them at lunch and, recently has started sitting at different tables then me. She now sits with my ex-friends who were such jerks, and she doesn't even sit with me anymore. She's a sweet person, but she is so clueless sometimes, and doesn't even realize that she is excluding me all the time. She's done this before, and I've talked about it with her, and she gets all nervous about it, and is very sorry. Then she forgets and does it again! I hate talking to her about how she's not being a good friend, and she gets really closed off when I do. Now she's at it again, and I don't think I can stand being friends with her anymore, but yet I still want to be friends! Ahh, what do I do? I don't want to say 'You're really excluding me' But I don't want her to keep ignoring me. What should I say to her, and should I still be her friend?
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