I feel guilty, but I know that I shouldn't...why do I???

Question

I recently had to block someone from my Y/A "fans" as I knew I would be picking up my very own little reporter troll. Why on earth would I feel even remotely guilty about this? Is it because I am doomed to continue to look at the world through rose colored glasses and try to see the good in people? Does anyone else experience this at all? XOXOXO

Answer 1

Awww sweety,

I know exactly how you feel.

These days, a lot of users add me as a contact, and I don't know most of them.

Sometimes, they are level 1s and I am their only contact...which can also mean that someone added me to open up my Questions and Answers.

This always freak me out...so, I end up blocking them.

I also feel guilty...because I feel as if I blocked the wrong person...perhaps he/she is innocent and just liked my posts and wanted to be nice and friendly, and I repay their kindness by blocking them.

But it is better to stay safe than Sorry.

*Best Wishes*

♪♣ Đǐvǐήέ Яάў ♣♪

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Answer 2

huh?

Answer 3

I know exactly how you feel. You try to not hurt anyone's feelings, and when you block them you feel as if you're being mean to them. Just remember, the person is already mean to begin with, or you wouldn't have to block them, so they probably won't mind being blocked.

With my old account I never blocked anyone, no matter how nasty they were. I'm trying to be a little tougher with this new account, that's why I don't allow any fans.

Personally, I just had one of my first contacts, a person I really liked a lot, block me yesterday for no reason I can figure out. I swear I was never mean to him, and if I said anything to hurt his feelings, it was completely unintentional. I'm really hurt, but I guess I'll have to get over it.

Answer 4

Im confused...

Answer 5

You're a good person (as far as I can tell, that is) and that's that!

Everyone should look for the good in people instead of picking out the bad things, the imperfections. Keep it up, but try not to feel too guilty, everyone has their reasons for doing something!

Answer 6

just add a line in ur profile saying that, if anyone adds you without emailing you first, you will just block them.

this way, you will know before itself who is going to add you. if you feel he/she is a troll, just reply back saying that u dont want them to add you.

but mostly, trolls just add!!. so even you have the right to just block them!

well abt this person just recently blocked, dont worry. its okay!.. you shouldnt feel guily abt it.  

Answer 7

yes. I feel guilty about everything. I feel guilty when i call off sick from work lol. but once i was talking to a guy on myspace, ang gave him my aim sn, when i started talking to him he kept asking where i lived. he was from the same town as me, and he already knew i lived in that town, but he kept wanting to know exactly where i lived. I got a little creeped out and blocked him. first time i ever blocked anyone from aim, and i did feel bad about it afterwards.

Answer 8

u done even know him why'd u care ?