I feel indaqequate... Bored.. How do i defeat this?

Question

I just finished school, looking for a job etc.. Been trying hard but it just doesnt seem any1 wants me. I am stuck at home... Bored. Time just slowly passing. Help.

Answer 1

Focus on your gifts.  We all have some.  Many people are bored because they are boring.  When you want yourself and love yourself, you become wanted and loved by others.  Figure out what you want, get passionate and go for it.  In my life I'm too busy to be bored.  When you realize your worth, you wont be bored anymore.  Blessings on you.

Answer 2

Set realistic goals and achieve them.

Answer 3

Try changing your view of reality. For starts go on "YouTube"

and type "Illuminati"into the search. Seek and you shall find.

Answer 4

Make a game of getting a job. Make some reasonable rules and stick to them.

Occupy yourself by asking just what is a potential employer wants from an employee. Write it down or type it up and research it on the web. See where you could improve and work out a way to make it happen. Is it addtional training, demonstrating teamwork, showing industry (voluntary work work maybe?), displaying confidence, showing you get on with people or something else entirely.

Give yourself a target - say 4 jobs a day. Do your research on these and adapt your approach accordingly. It's always easier to get a job if you have one so you could try something very basic to start with which should be easier to get.

Go out there often - get some fresh air - chill out a little bit after a hard days job-hunting.

Buddy up with someone (who is also looking for work?) to keep you motivated and ask around your friends and family. Get them to keep their eyes and ears open for you and indeed ask their contacts if they know of any jobs going. Trying hard these days isn't enough you have to 'try smart' as well!

Good luck.

Answer 5

How many jobs have you applied to so far? 1 or 2? Keep trying and trying until you get one. You won't lose anything if you try harder... be confident and good luck.

Answer 6

Play Gears of War. That'll get time to fly. Besides, there is only one life man, enjoy it, live it, and you'll get people to hire you everywhere. Self-confidence is what everyone looks for.

Answer 7

Build your self confidence. Try exercise and vitamins.

Answer 8

find a hobby and get good at it, then you'll be neither bored nor feel inadequate.