I live with my current boyfriend- we've been living together for about three months. We've been together for just over a year and a half. I felt this awesome connection with him, a really special closeness and comfort and like-mindedness.
Anyways, up until recently I've been POSITIVE that I would marry him after college (right now he's 21 and I'm 20, so we're still pretty young here) I always joke with him about getting married someday, having babies, that sort of thing.
And up until recently I've been really happy. But then I started thinking about my ex-boyfriend, who I dated in high school. We hung out the other night with some friends.... I don't know if feelings from him are stirring up or if its just me missing days gone by?
I seriously cried myself to sleep last night, because I felt like, all of a sudden, like "Who am I, and what am I doing in this apartment?" I felt like I was cheating on my ex-boyfriend, my first love. But my current live-in boyfriend truly is wonderful. I am just so confused.
I feel awful. I feel guilty about all these doubts, all this confusion. I feel like I'm not sure of anything anymore. I feel sick to my stomach.
What should I do?
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