on one hand I feel like I am the happiest person in the world because I waited and waited and now finnally i have what i wanted. I am engaged to My one true love. I love this man with all my heart and nothing will come between that but most recently we have been having severall problems.
The problems are all based on his daughter. She is a very confused, mixed up, spoiled, 12 year old who will do ANYTHING for attention no matter how much time you spend with her. She was starting this behavior (~3 years now)before we even got together so i know its not me. Her mother is a parinoid schizopherenic and cannot care at all for her daughter not even for 2 hours of the day, her only other family is her grandmother (mothers mom) whom has 9 other grand kids living with her so she cant ever go there either. occasionally we do get a break she will go to her grandmas when we beg.
here is the problem:
his daughter is constantly having more and more problems Serisous ones like bulimea, cutting her wrists, acting WAY too old for her age, trying to dress litterally like a w***e, and many more.
We are to the point where she is in a monthly counceling session but its not enough, everyday we come home with a genuine fear of whats going to happen next. It is to the point where it causes too much stress on our relationship and we get into fights because we are so stressed about her and what she is going to do next.
I hate to say this but I dont know what to do, I know i dont deserve all this for having the one i love, but i dont want to "get rid" of his daughter either.
How am I suposed to handle this? I dont know if I can handle her being sick like her mother. I DO NOT want to leave him or his child, but i dont know what to do I cant even concentrate at work because there is too much stress with her at home. I litterally get sick on the way home because i know another crazy event is about to take place.
We have her set up for a evaluation at a mental health place next week, but I am to the point of i cant take it one more minute... what do i do? maybe some encouragement will help.
thanks for your time
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