I feel like I'm spending more time with my three year old daughter Samantha then with my five year old son Pix

Question

When I asked Pix this question "Pix do you think I spend more time with Sammy then you?" he said "Mabye a little bit but its just because she needs more attention, then a grown up like me." I love how he calls himself a grown up but any way he useually would say "YEAH SHES A LITTLE BRAT!" or something like that, he has sibling rivelry but nope not that time but I was wondering two things #1 Why did he act so mature when I asked him the question?" #2 How can I make sure he feels like I love him and Samantha equally?

Right now they are out Playing with their cousins and a friend, Pix (5) is playing with Frodo (7) and Samantha (3) is playing with Charlie (4 and a half) and so is Twiley (8) shes the neighbore girl she and my neice nephew and children are exploreing a tree that fell down in a storm, I babysit Twiley a lot, any way thats just an extra thing I thought to tell you

Answer 1

When your little one goes to bed, spend some quality time with your son. Do something he likes to do. That way he'll really feel that he gets his OWN speicial time with you

Answer 2

You should start doing things that they both can do.