I feel like I am having a crisis?

Question

I am a Sophomore in high school, and I feel like I am way ahead of my self, I am already having some weird sort of midlife crisis deal but I am not even over eighteen!

I want to settle down with someone already, I can't enjoy high school and have my mind set on graduation, admission to a good college, graduating from that good college, having my career, meeting a woman in college and marrying her after college then settle down and have a family.

I am way to young to have all this on my mind! I can't even enjoy here and now because how my future looks causes me so much anxiety. (I am a 4.0 GPA student by the way.)

I can't get out of that mind set and enjoy being a teenager and having fun with my friends and girls, I don't want to date or anything and I feel like I am five to ten years ahead of my self on most of my priorities.

Also I know who I want to marry and we are seriously perfect for each other but she wants to move far far away after high school, and I can't imagine a future with out her.

All this is just causing me so much anxiety, help?

Someone help me please?!

Answer 1

hmmm...talk to her about how you feel! dont assume she knows! and if she doesnt feel the same for you then you should move on, you are too young.

also, i think you are just incredibly smart and your bored so you have nothing thats challenging your mind and thus you are resorting to thinking of the future, etc, maybe you could think about what you want to do in college and start researching..or even take a few community college classes and that will make life a bit more interesting... at least i think so

=) good luck!

Answer 2

Society uses expectations to guide people. False expectation also cause depression even suicide. Be careful what you wish for.

Answer 3

Meet a hot girl