I feel like I have no use left in this world......?

Question

for the past couple months, my friend for like 4 years and I have still been hanging out a lot, but like branching off to other people. Then in the past couple months, her friends that she kind of branched out to, left her a little bit. She's been squeezing in with my group of friends, which I let her. Then she freakin makes jokes about me playing around, but it still kind of hurts inside. Anyway, today is her birthday (not her party, her birthday) and she invited all the people from my little group to her house EXCEPT ME! I feel horrible. My friends left me, my family hates me, and I feel like I'm not good. What should I do?

Answer 1

Kassidy, everyone goes through hard times. If we didn't, we would not know how to handle our lives.

This girl does not sound like a friend. That too is a learning process. Even true friends will hurt you at times but they will not exclude you from important things as she has. Move on. Remember, it is not you! When people put others down it is because they have deep insecurities about themselves. Try, as hard as it is, to let it go.

I am assuming you are about 13 or 14. This is a really tough age. You have been let down and will be let down hundreds of times in your life. You must rise above.

Your family does not hate you so get that out of your head. The world will not come to an end because of some insensitive little brat who has little compassion for others. You be the bigger person and remember to treat others the way you wish to be treated. True friends will come your way. This is just a little bump in the long road.

Take care and hold your head up. You will be fine!

Answer 2

How horrible that she didn't invite you. Something like this happened to me when I was younger, too. The best thing is to move on and ignore her. Stop letting her hang out with you or at your house. Seriously, she is not a good friend, especially if she is making fun of you and not inviting you to do things. It isn't that your friends left you- they will always have different friends than you. Your one friend left you. Have them over and just forget about the other friend. Maybe she will learn her lesson. Act like it doesn't bother you one bit, ok?

Answer 3

she is very rude just forget bout her and look for other friends