I feel like I have...? (really sad please help)?

Question

I feel like I have lived a completely boring wasted life. I mean nothing big has ever happened to me. I can't even remember anything in my life that has really happened. I am 14 years old and so far I have not experienced absolutely anything. Even little stupid things. I have always just had a plain boring life and there has been nothing interesting about it. No fun memories, no boyfriends, no problems, no excitement no anything! and this is really depressing me. I don't know how to deal with it. I know there is nothing I can do. But like a lot of people my age have had fun lives and have experienced a lot of things. They have been through a lot and have had crazy lives. But for me all I can really remember is just laying around watching tv or something. You know going to school and doing nothing my whole life. I am really sad about this.

Answer 1

just remember--you are 14 and you are thinking about that at being age 14.

when you grow up a little more im sure you will have more

Answer 2

when you're old, you will tell others that your life is boring.

hey, just wait..that special moment will just come one day. trust me!

Answer 3

hey there,

i felt exactly the same way when i was your age..

and im 15 now, and sometimes i still complain. but i wish i was still in last year, i was much happier coming home and just chilling, instead of dealing with some many problems..

but you should be glad you have nothing to worry about... you are literally living the good life. Love will come to you soon, be patient... its about waiting not hooking up with anyone.. drinking, drugs, ect.... its just so lame experience. trust me, when you get older you will know. The point is just chill and be glad for what you have and where you are. You havent gotton into any lame problems or situations. others would want to be in your place. If you want to, perhaps get more involved in school such as the drama club, or some sport. other than that, all you have to do is chill.. your young. its not like your 21 already! what other things do typical 14 yr old kids do? i ask myself the same question.. you have a good life thats what you have.. and its not boring like the other people who have had theere "experiences", its definitally interesting because you have kept yourself out of all the S***. instead learn some skills, like playing guitar, drawing, ect., and try making new good friends at school.

Answer 4

There use to be a girl just like you at my school, until one day she went to the school dance, found someone to dance with. Then I can remember looking at her ten minutes later and she was all having-fun and partying and from then on she is full of partying and experience. Good luck, girl.

Answer 5

i bet you've done something interesting. don't waste time worrying that you're not doing that typical teen ****. trust me, it's overrated. besides, they barely have memories to look back on because they were ****** up when it happened. and it's not that crazy just drugs, drinking, and herpes. people just like to pretend that their lives are so crazy and exciting, when really it's not. i've experienced it and i much prefer actually exciting things, like travel and scuba. see the world, do things, don't waste time getting drunk with your friends. and why would you want to have problems?