I feel like am setting my self up for abuse later in life...help{kind of long]?

Question

am in a realtionship now..my last one last only 2 days with soe guy whho was big, tall, and scary looking..he was an outkast at school., he graduated this year..this passed school year (am highschool by the way, entering junior year) this year i noticed a diffrenece in how the guys been treating, like in my class., partically i thought it was my falut.

this year i got depressed. people in my school know knows about the prbolems/ fights bettween me and my mom, they see am emtional, they see am insecure, passive..and recent this one guy who brain washed the other said that i get high, that's why am slow. I hate drugs and would never take them. also people that that guy i went out with for 2 days, use to hit me...he never did. But i notice that the guys in my class have started to pinch, shoved, touch my thighs, and all form of this resepct..i dont like it at all, Instead i react implusivly, and ethier hit them, or move, but they in turn keep doing it.

Answer 1

This isnt your fault, dont ever think that!!!  They are just being jerks but going too far....I dont know why school kids do this, I could never understand, would they want lies spread about them in school?  Or to be harrassed by the guys??  This is so sexual harrassement if they think they can touch your thighs, and whatever else...you need to report them to somebody, stand up for yourself, you'll feel so much better...They have no right to do this to you and you have every right to do something about it...Dont Let Yourself Be The Victim!  It'll only make things worse.  I hope everything works out for you, I' sorry this is happening to  you

Answer 2

this does sound like you have a lot of worry. but you may not need to worry. your situation isn't the best, but you still can make choices with your life. you are young and haven't done anything irreversible. if i were you i would just stay away from all these worthless teenage boys. just don't even interact with you.

I couldn't really understand what you were talking about regarding your home life. If there is no violence or abuse then at least you have that. Keep up your work for school so and start to look for a part-time job. Think about your future so that you can have better options later on. I'm not sure what else to say except always put yourself first. If you feel you can't trust people then don't every put yourself in a vulnerable position with these people.