I feel like an idiot/douche bag at the same time...?

Question

ok...well, my girlfriend and I (we've known each other for 7 years, had feelings for each other for 7 years and finally i asked her out and we've been a couple for 4 months now and we are in love with each other) are in a long distance relationship and few days ago, I spent $700 just to see her for 3 days (it was a surprise plan for her...i had to go to the airport and get first class ticket cause it was the only available ticket)

anyways, earlier today, my best girl friend's family came over and we had a great time...but the problem started when my BGF and I were on the couch and I, all of sudden, grabbed her butt for like 20 minutes and she didn't even say a thing (we did flirt a lot before I went out with my current girlfriend) and I really wished that she'd stop me from doing that because she has a boyfriend...and I regret it SO MUCH, I just want to punch myself...and I really want to cry so hard because I feel so guilty...

what should I do? I know it's a long story, but i feel so miserable now... thank you.

Answer 1

Maybe your relationship with your current girlfriend is not as strong or as fulfilling as it should be. The reason you grabbed your best girl friends butt was because there is some deep down attraction between you to and you need to discuss it.

Tell your current girlfriend that you need some time to think things out, and figure out what you really want before making any more moves on either one, so nobody's feelings get hurt in the long run.

Answer 2

Just ask like it never happened.

Forget about it.

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