I feel like committing suicide what should i do?

Question

my step dad is very strict on me ever since i was little. he always said that if i don't listen to him and follow whatever he says then he will leave my mother. And in asia it's hard to take care of a girl especially if it's a single parent. he makes me so a lot of work, in school and in the house. like i have no life and my mom never says anything. no matter what i do it's never enough for him everything is depended on me. And he said that's the price i'm going to have to pay for being a girl. does that even make any sense? what should i do?

i can't have any friends, i can't date anyone and forget about partying. i'm 19 and my life sucks!!

Answer 1

Wait till hes a asleep steal his wallet and money and run away, that's what i' d do anyway.

Answer 2

you need to find God. faith is the best thing to keep your head up, to keep you wanting to live. because you have something to live for.

i hope i don't sound too cheesy. i'm 14, and i know that there is no way for me to ever understand fully what you are going through. but don't take your own life. there is so much to live for.

keep your head up, things will turn for the better.

another thing i would like to reccomend: pray. if you are truly at the end of your rope, what do you have to lose? just take a second to ask for strength, courage, whatever you need. ask for comfort, or perseverance. God loves you, even if you are not yet familiar with Him.

i hope i've helped. don't lose faith.

Answer 3

i am so sorry i know how it is w/a step dad and i have one of my own

:( i've been there i have thought bout the same thing and said "well nobody wil miss me anyways" but there will b ppl out there tht would b upset look at how many ppl have replied 2 this and r beggin u not 2 do it and r there 4 comfort c there r ppl out there 4 u and so wht if u dont have a bf i still havent had one yet...which makes me sad sometimes but i'm good cuz i know there is somebody out there 4 everybody...and like one person said b4 u need faith in God and he will get u through everything...but if u need 2 talk 2 anybody i'm here so if u got a myspace u can look me up or u can email me on here so my email is:   [e-mail]

plz dont commit suicide....it's so sad jus thinkin bout it idk u but plz dont do it....

Answer 4

Try to get in touch with some authority that can help you out or tough it out untill you can stand on your on two feet i.e. find a job and move out on your own, or with some friends who would like to live with you.

Answer 5

That sounds so sad! waht country do u live in?

I know how its like being a girl in a country where human rights are contantly being  violated and its usually women and girls and children  who suffer the most.

If there where some sort of  humans rights group or local autorities, social services, etc,etc you might try and seek help or just flee, and or maybe find  a guy who loves you and maybe he'd take you aout of there.

good luck sweetheart.

kizzez

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madame _juba: if god really existed this poor girl wouldn't  be going thougth all of this awfulness

Answer 6

MOVE OUT!!!!!!!!!! ur 19 by law ur allowed 2 move out get a steady job find a cheap apartment if ur mom feels like this 2 u guys could move out together, but make sure ur stepdad doesn't no where u live

Answer 7

talk to someone at school

get help

killing yourself wont help anything

think what ur mom will go thru

plz dont

im here to talk

Answer 8

Don't kill yourself. Life will get better. Move out.

Answer 9

come to america. try to convince ur mom to come too.

Answer 10

Wow.....Thats sad! If you need to talk sweetie, just email me. I'm a mom of 2 so I know what my daughters life is like, and I knew what it was like when I was younger.

Answer 11

u r still able to share this with us, so now u got lot of ears all around. This is time to gain some self-confidence and positive attitude.If u believe in life, u need to take the advice of some good hearts from here. be in continuous touch with us. u r not alone. there r lot of us feeling the same way. so join hands with us.we will pull u up.