I feel like c**p, what should I do?

Question

This guy I thought was interested in me (he is giving me driving lessons, with his car, gas, time,...) he helps me a lot and offers his help without me even asking. He comes to pick me and invites me to parties with his friends. The only problem was that he doesn't make any forward move. I didn't know what to do and I didn't want to make any forward move myself. So I decided to invite him to a restaurant tonight to thank him for his help. But he said no, and said that maybe we should celebrate after I get my driver's license. I don't know why, But I feel like c**p now, it took me a lot to get the courage to ask him, and turned he me down (I know he just postponed it, but still...) Am I overreacting? It seemed to me that he didn't like me. Should I just forget him?

Answer 1

maybe he likes you as a friend only.  be patient.

Answer 2

May be he's waiting for you to GRADUATE! then he can date you, since you are his student he cannot date you! get it?

Answer 3

OMG...what's the big deal? Maybe he had plans and couldn't go to dinner with you...Sheesh lighten up...How old are you anyway? Make your move at dinner when it's just the 2 of you......Good Luck!

Answer 4

I think you should tell him that if you pass your test he has to go out with you to dinner as a reward for passing. Maybe he is giving you something to strive for. Him being the prize.

Answer 5

He likes you but it doesn't sound like for more then a friend or maybe he does.  I'm not sure, what exactly did he say when you asked him?  Just no and nothing else only we should celebrate after you get your license? If that was it then it doesn't look like he is romantically in to you.

Answer 6

Don't feel like c**p, maybe look at him as a wonderful friend who when the time is right might move on to something more.   Friendship is a wonderful way to start.  Celebrating after you get your license will make it exciting and give you a true reason to celebrate as you are not just celebrating you getting your license, but also recognising your friend as a good driving instructor.  Good Luck!!!

Answer 7

IMO, you're over-reacting.  He obviously likes you.  I don't know if he likes you that way, but people usually won't go out of their way the way this guy has if he doesn't at least like you as a friend.

Please remember that guys are usually more result-oriented than gals.  If you don't want to wait to test the water, invite him again, and make very clear that it is not a dinner to celebrate success, but a dinner to thank him and show your appreciation.  See what happens.

Good luck.

Answer 8

Yup, forget him. He is playing a game with you. He should have had enough kindness even if he only thought of you as a friend to go to dinner with you. Your feelings are right. Trust yourself , you know what is up with him. Take care.