I feel like c**p :[?

Question

I've just broke down in tears.

My boyfriend doesn't understand why i won't meet his friends.

The truth is, i'm so self-concious.

I have terrible, spotty skin. Damaged hair, disgusting teeth and braces.

I feel terrible, and i just want to be that girl i know boys want girls to be.

No-one understand what its like to be a teenage girl, it's terrible.

Magazines screaming at you to be flawless.

I feel terrible :(

How can i be perfect ?

Answer 1

you seem gullible, or just really ready to fill a stereotype.

and really, if you're taken, i doubt his friends are going to check you out.

Answer 2

oh u don't need to be perfect u need to love yourself for who u r theres no such thing as pefection doent matter wat other people think about u if ur bf's friend dont like u then s***w them the important part is wat ur bf thinks and mostly urself

Answer 3

im a teenage girl and i totally understand

i feel the EXACT same way

my boyfriend makes me feel SO comfortable around him that i dont care what his friends say

as long as he loves me

all his friends are 16 while im 13 so can you see why its so scary

im very self conscious too

but just tell him how you feel

say you dont feel comfortable around them and why you dont

ask him to help you build self confidence

Answer 4

You boyfriend loves you the way you are, you should accept that. If his friends don't like you, if he cares enough about you, he will stand up to them.

(:

Answer 5

It's impossible to be perfect. Just know that your boyfriend cares about you and clearly he thinks you're lovely if he wants to show you off to his friends.

Answer 6

well i am sorry but just know that u have a boyfriend that most likely loves u and u alread already are beating so people (like me) cuase i dont even have a boyfriend. here are some suggestions about ur problems

hair: get a new shampoo that makes ur ahir healty again like patinene soft and shine it has a blue cap adn i just started using it but a lot of guys have already complimented me on how soft and pretty my hair is

teeth: u should try the crest whitenig trips becuase those work

skin: have u seen those comericals that talk about the creams u chan get... well just get some of those or ask ur mom she will be able to help u

attitude: everyone has days when they feel unperfect but it will make u seem happier and prettier if u make it look like u love ur self......have an atiitude that says ya i know im pretty and have confidence becuase guys notice those things and be entergetic and caring

i have recently starting doing these thinsg and i am aware that guys check me out and want me but a few years ago they werent like this... so it takes time and u need to be confideent in ur self

Answer 7

i bet ur cute=[ every teen goes though this teenage h**l just have self esteem thats all if u relli feel cautiouse about ur acne or spotty skin get foundation it covers it up and with the braces thing brush them reallllly well also if are relli that ugly as u say u are how dou  have a bf??

Answer 8

just remember:: he likes you for a reason :)

MINE?

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Answer 9

well you cant be perfect but theres always other ways to fix yourself up, like try to apply on makeup and see how it goes from there.

Answer 10

hello, if you already have a boyfriend, who cares what they think.

Answer 11

perfection is overrated.  seriously.  I'm not perfect (at all), but I aknowledged that I'm not ugly.  there's a difference between being perfect and being pretty.  Being perfect is ugly.  Every perfect person out there looks the same, I get tired of it.  If you look at models and actresses, they're not perfect at all.  They actually usually have big noses, or huge ears, or something.  it's what makes you you.  And if your boyfriend wants you to meet his friends, he obviously doesn't think you're ugly.  And he doesn't care.  It's more important to him that you meet his friends, not that you're hot.

Answer 12

well seeing as you recognize flaws.. you're already are perfect..

girls in magazines do not exist.. so dont feel like you need to compare yourself..

one day you're going to wake up.. and not give a *****

you're gonna go to the mirror, and tell yourself that you are beautiful

as soon as you learn to love yourself..

everything else will fall into place

Answer 13

oh honey,dont worry about it,I felt the same way as u do now,you will change,believe me.it is the ugliest years of human.do smt for your hair,get it cut and dye,put some make up,wear nice/hot clothes and smile all the time:)

Answer 14

well...



take a shower

do your hair

brush your teeth

put on cover up and mascera

purfume...but not too much

its okay because u just have to be yourself...and take care of yourself

dont ever try to hard for a guy

  

Answer 15

You can't! Just deal with it! i'am and so are thousands of other teenage girls!!  

Answer 16

omg that sux. but IIIIIIII know what its like im a teenager!!!!  i had damaged hir so i went and got it fixed and now its pretty and healthy so thats 1 thing you can do! When you say spotty do you mean like acne or what? and you have brqaces to fix ur teeth when you get them off thell be perfect. those dumb maginzes. there are all skinny but you shouldnt be jealous. and they are all pretty but have you ever seen what they look likwe with out make up? they look crappy and reeealy bad skin. In magines its mostly computers and craploads of makeup.! i hope i brighten ur day!! lol. btw i am 12/13

Answer 17

Nobody can be perfect. Trust me, I know.

All teens feel like they're not good enough. Teens are more likely to feel self concious than anyone else.

Be you and dont be afraid to.

And try explaining to  your bf about your needs in this situation and try to be less self concious

Answer 18

when there is more then 1 million people dying.Sorry I have no sympathy for you.Usually shallow people go through that stage.Idk but my bf is really hot and he's sweet to me.and I wasn't considered pretty cuz I really didn't give a shiit.I think you should get some self confidence.and get over yourself.

Answer 19

Well, no one can be perfect. I understand how you feel. Sometimes you can be embarrassed by your looks, but you should always have confidence in yourself. You said you have spotty skin. You can just start to clear it by washing your face with warm water, then cold. This will open your pores, then close them back up again to prevent breakouts. For your hair, you should get it trimmed and have the hair place wash it for you. The formulas that they use will moisturize your hair and make it look better. You can't really help your braces, but you can use whitening toothpaste if you like. I hope that you gain confidence in yourself. Even if you feel bad, if your boyfriend's friends comment about it, then they are just being mean. Feel better!