I feel like im going to cry! PLEASE ANSWER!!?

Question

I don't know whats wrong with me! I just can't seem to find a boyfriend and im so sick of it. Ive always been alone and I feel like I will never find my soul mate. I am friendly and nice to everyone and people tell me I look good and that I should be a model but I just can't find anyone. I usually say "well, I'll find him soon" and it never happens. I feel like breaking down and crying. Maybe I should just ask a guy that I like out. Im just so afraid of that though. I have all this anxiety that I don't have anyone and my sister is married and she gave me a whole lecture about how I should do internet dating. Im 20 years old I feel like an old maid. Where did you meet your boyfriend and do you have any suggestions?

Thank you.

Answer 1

Hi, Friend,

You have only depression which get heights when you see people around you have good companionse/friends and are enjoying every moment of life.

Plz for God sake dont take hurry steps in searching life time companion.

sweet 20s are not that age to get worried about anythng. You must simplify yourself by getting rid of thoughts you are wrapped in and start ur life with a positive thinking.

KEEP IN MIND - FOR EVERY PERSON GOD HAS DESTINED THINGS AT A CERTAIN POINT OF TIME - ONE CANNOT GET IT BEFORE OR AFTER THAT TIME.

SO TAKE HEART, BE BOLD AND LEAVE ALL ONTO THE HANDS OF ALMIGHTY.

HE HIMSELF WILL TAKE CARE OF YOU AS ALWAYS.

BEST OF LUCK.

IN CASE OF DEPRESSION YOU CAN SEND MAIL TO ME.

Answer 2

relax, it ain't that urgent.  you're young and hot.  flirt with the guy you like so he gets the idea that you want him to ask you out.  or if you know he likes you ask him out.

Answer 3

omg just go up to him and ask him if he wants to go to a movie with you! or go to the movies and ask a guy or group of guys if you could see a movie with them and then like get one of their numbers and go on like real dates with them

Answer 4

i totally know how yooh feel.....im only 14 but um....i may not be as "sad".....i think yooh need to find a way to talk to the guy yooh like and then just ask if he wants to get something to eat or go get coffee or rent a movie or something yooh know...or just talk......i hope everything goes well and i think that you will find him.....if your good lookin then wat do yooh have to lose!?!.......are yooh pretty kool to hang around?......or is it just the confidence thats getting to yooh thats one of my main probz is my confidence....and well i dont think im the prettiest thing but i dont think im butt ugly...but thats beside the point......yooh should really start your lil journey and go find mr right yooh no!....talk to him......oh and be yourself!!!!!......good luck

Answer 5

You need to take some time to get into yourself. Make sure you are happy with who you are before you can be happy with someone else. Do what ever it is that makes you happy. Go out and when you do go out look your best. Try to involve yourself with any activities that you enjoy. Finding someone will happen, but it's usually when you least expect it. Don't be so hard on yourself. You're still young. there's plenty of time to find the one you'll be happy with. Just don't settle. When you have done everything that makes you happy and you are enjoying life, that's when someone special will come into your life. Don't sweat it. It will happen for you when the time is right. Trust. ';-)

Answer 6

it cant hurt to flirt a little and maybe give him your number... and if u look like a model u should be able to find someone. maybe your anxiety to move things too quick can be turning off some guys. i wouldnt worry so much i had a teacher that got married at 50 and he and his wife were happy and had children.

Answer 7

aww that is very sad I know how you feel, you should go ahead and ask a guy, just flirt and stuff, i know it seems like you wont ever find anyone but you will just wait for that special someone be patient best of luck =]    

Answer 8

don trush it you will find mr. right! guyz hate when you date them because your bored they want you to date them because you like them i promise you will find love just keep a close eye out heck call ur old highschool sweetheart mr. right will come along!

Answer 9

well i felt the same way as you. i am a little overweight and i was made fun of badly in middle school. i had guys that flirted with me but they never asked me out, only the hot girls. i have been told i am very pretty and such, so i was just distraught. I ended up meeting my boyfriend on the internet. we have been together for 3 years now. we met on myspace i added him randomly cause of the age range and we lived in the same area. we started off by getting to know each other on the internet then we met and hung out and found chemistry. and he was not the first time. i had plenty of encounters with guys via internet that were a bust. don't get discouraged. try that and also try acting more confident even if you aren't. go up to guys you like and make conversation. good luck!

Answer 10

honey - there is nothing wrong with you. you will find 'Mr. Right' eventually - it will take time but when you find him - he'll be perfect for you.

just make sure you are you when around guys - don't be overly flirty - that can just p**s guys off. Example: girl i know is ALWAYS flirty around guys even if she is with a guy already and she is always way over the top - so much that the guys literally start backing away from her  - they become freaked out lol. so - no fake laughter don't make up stuff (stories whatever) to impress guys-be you -A guy should love you for you

Good luck :D

Answer 11

you just need to not be afraid to talk to people.

please dont do internet dating,that would make me feel even more pathetic.

if there is a guy you like, just ask him out, you are still young despite what you think just put yourself out there!