I feel like im losing my best friend?

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I feel like im losing my best friend?

okay so over the summer i have been away from my home town. since ive been away my best friend has been hanging out with this other girl and i fee like im losing my best friend. please helppp me i do not want to lose her and i want it to be the same as before i left.

Answer 1

that's simple...go and talk to her about your worry. and i m sure she will understand...i had the same fear, and co-incidentally i just patched up with her. gud luck!

Answer 2

start calling her on the phone or talking to her and see if she wants to do something...and see how the other girl is like if shes snotty or mean cuzz the is she is like that or friend might act like that.(so....you should make her avoid the other girl and make her spend time with you.....lol

Answer 3

Just see what happens when you come back (if you haven't already) like the first person said if she's really your true friend that won't change just because she found someone to hang out with while you were gone, some people have more than one best friend (I personally don't really like that but it's something that usually ends up happening) If you feel ignored tell her you miss her and that you don't want to lose a friendship just because you were gone for a little while.

Answer 4

being a summer away is hard

you cant expect her to not find someone else to hang out with while you are away

if she is really your true friend, then she will still be your best friend

you might even make friends with the girl she hangs out wiht too  

Answer 5

remind her of all the good times you had, and hang out with her more and more and have some laughs and show her how it was be fore and she'll realize what good friends you are and everythign will fall into place liek before

hope it helps, good luck =)

Answer 6

she is still going to be your best friend. my best friend and i started getting separeted in 4rth grade now we're not close but we still have fun times and laugh.

Answer 7

please enjoy my friend

tommorow may be you have a million friend

Answer 8

well. if shes ur "best friend" she will back. maybe go out with her and have some fun and see if things go back but if they dont that shows that ur best friend isnt a firend after all.

hope i helped.

Answer 9

Confront her about it. You all can be friends this haphappenede too. and i didn't see why we all could of been friends. The girl turned out to be really nice. Every time shes somewhere we talk. Hope this works a lot.

Answer 10

Just treat her like you did before you went away for the summer.  Don't act insecure and don't try to force her to hang out with just you and not the other girl.  Give it some time and maybe things will get back to the way they were.

Answer 11

try talking to her. say that you want to hangout with her and you want it to be just the 2 of you. then some point tell her that you feel like you are losing her. she might deny it but at least she knows that you feel that way and you want to be best friends still

Answer 12

if she feels like u r her best friend she will come back

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