I feel like my husband does not want me...?

Question

Ok, I feel so selfish but I am also hurting as well. I feel lonely inside and I have talked to my husband about this problem that I have been dealing with, but nothing seems to help. I like physical contact and I like s*x. I mean, that is not all that I think about and I love my husband more than life itself but... we have only been married alittle more than a month and it seems like he does not want to have s*x anymore. Sometimes I hint to him that I am in the mood and that I want to pleasure him and he will find an excuse... like being too tired or he wants to read a book. We used to have s*x everyday, no more than twice a day but now I go days without s*x.

I have a few questions.

1. Is twice a day for newly weds too much to ask for?

2. Does it sound like my husbadn does not want me sexually anymore?

3. Am I being selfish with wanting to have s*x atleast once a day?

I feel lonely, unwanted and denied.

Answer 1

go out and get some strange come home and tell your husband what you did, pack your things and tell him your leaving and you want a divorce.

who knows...he is weird

yes newly weds have s*x all day everyday and even when they get older...sometimes it just happens you will be horny for months and s***w like rabbits...that is so strange...he is cheating on you...he is getting it somewhere else.

Answer 2

That is so d**n sad.

Are you fat?

Answer 3

cheating

Answer 4

Relax, and play hard to get for a while. My husband is a good man, and we love e/o very much. He is not a perv and would not cheat on me. But I think he would be exhausted..if we were having s*x twice a day. Or even once a day!  That's a lot of s*x.

And we are young. 28,29.  

Answer 5

dont pressure him. i went through that with my ex. i was feeling very self consious and the fact that she just kept asking me for s*x made me feel like c**p. i think you should give him a little bit of space and find out if he is really happy. be supportive and dont ever try to guilt him into having s*x. that will only work for so long.

i think that the way men work is the exact opposite from women. in order for a man to get a woman to sleep with him he has to get her mentally before he can have her physically. well i think men work the opposite. we want s*x right away but eventually that is not enough.

i know whenever i came back from a camping trip or a motorcycle trip i couldnt wait to have her. or if we were busy all weekend and we truly had fun i would want her. but when things got dull. the same old routine i sort of lost interest.

good luck

Answer 6

Try backing off a little and let him chase you. If that doesnt work... its highly possible he's cheating.  

Answer 7

Maybe he's just tired from work or something. Guys don't usually turn down s*x so maybe you're initiating it the same way each time. Try to change it up and see if that makes a diff.

Answer 8

How long have you been together?  

Do you think the man needs a break?  That can be physically exhausting for a man! Think about him for a minute..  I know that all guys think about is s*x, but maybe he needs a breather.  

Let him come up for air.  

Don't give it up for a while and see what happens... If he doesn't come after you maybe there is another reason for you to question what is going on.  If he comes around than maybe that was all he needed, a break!

Answer 9

Sounds like he's settling into married life a little more than you'd like. You two need to talk & reach some kind of compromise. You can't expect to maintain things at the pre-marriage level indefinitely but he also can't can't expect you to go from feast to famine. Give it some time but don't give up!