I feel like my life is falling apart can someone help?

Question

ive been hurt by two guys who claimed they liked me in less then a week my best friend is getting a bf that shes obsessed w? and who h8s me and im gonna lose her, and i got picked as an alternate when im really good @ my sport i feel like im losing everything i love slowly slipping i just turnd 16 this should be the time of my life right? whats wrong with my and how do i stop feeling like this

Answer 1

It's called hormones honey, and you will feel like EVERYTHING is wrong with your world,

Saddly women are afflicted with these problems, which never really go away, they rear their ugly head for all women at different times of their lives, at the beginning of your teenage years your hormones go up anmd down like a roller coaster, one day you'll feel so happy you could giggle for no reason then the mext minute you feel like your world is faslling apart and nobody loves you or even likes you, it also hits again before child birth, then after child birth, (sometimes called The Baby blues) during your period, sometimes before ( called PMS) then when you start to approach menopause here it comes again. and during all these episoded.... girls and women CRY, and that helps, yes crying helps, it releases some sort of chemical which in turn releases some of the tension, that's why we're always being told, You'll feel better after a good cry" and we do.

So my dear wait a day or two, and see if you feel the same. at your young age you will fall in and out of love a dozen times or more, before MR right comes along, so don't sweat it. keep busy, find your self some new friends

If the one you say has now found a Bf and won't be YOUR friend any more she wasn't much of a friend to start with REAL friends stay real friends for ever even if you move away from each other .

There will be another bus ( I mean boy friend) along soon. Wait and see. I hope you feel better after reading my answer. I'm only here to help those who need my help.

Answer 2

When you are having such feeling you should think that there is someone  in the yahoo anwsers nicked  Egon who have bigger problems than yours xD , and no you are too young , at that stage of your life you should care about your lessons.

Answer 3

Dont let anyone bring you down

keep your head up and show

everyone you can do it .

Be there for your bestfriend no matter what

because in the end you might be all she has

If she is your true bestfriend she wont let a guy come between that

and if you are her true bestfriend

you wil lstill be her bestfriend and help her

you always have to be there for her .

Answer 4

don't let it get to you. it will be very hard to cure if you do. i believe things will be over as days pass. just deal with it for now.

Answer 5

The sweet 16 times can be an emotional rollercoaster. These feelings and frustrations are fairly normal and the hopelessness will pass with time, I promise.

Keep your head up, there will be more guys who will like you, more friends who are loyal, and better opportunities waiting for you.