I feel like my mums stupid boyfriend is taking over!!! My mum wont listen coz she's besotted with him??

Question

My mums bf recently moved in with us, i hate it. If i ask my mum something, he answers, when i do something he always has a opinion, when my little brother had a football match he refused to let him go coz my brother didnt eat his vegetables at dinner, then when my older sister came to stay (her husband recently passed away) he basically said you can stay the night then get out, i was off out to a party and he demanded to check my bag for some reason, he told me i wasnt getting any new school clothes until i cleaned the WHOLe house with my wee bro, and worst of all he said to me 'Megan your getting abit fat now!' im very skinny for my age, and i suffered from anorexia a while back so he knows that would get to me! Me and my brother hate this guy, but my mums head over heels for him, i dont wanna ruin her happiness but this guys driving me nuts, she wont listen when i talk to her, and the guy laughs whenever i try to talk to him

Any Advice??

Answer 1

I know it may be awkward but you are going to have to get with yor bro and your sis ( srry for her loss, btw) and have all of you guys talk to her nd then talk to him. See if he really plans on marrying your mom and to stop being a poophead.

Answer 2

you have two choices

1. Calmly tell your mom about this with or without ur sibs, plan what you are going to say and try to think about her reaction before you talk to her.

2. Insult and hate on your mom's boyfriend when ur mom isn't around so much that he leaves.

I would probably go with choice one cuz ur mom might get sad if her bf just leaves her

Answer 3

You sound like a big whining baby.  He lives there now, he makes the rules too.   He doesnt have to kiss your ****, he is in charge.  Deal with it or MOVE.

Sick of whiny kids that think the world revolves around them.

Answer 4

sometimes accepting a new boyfriend in the family is a difficult task depending on the teenagers. But the best bet is to pull your mom a side and tell her that yours and your brothers opinions for this guy are extremely low. tell her you don't want to ruin her happiness but also tell her she should be looking at the happiness of her children first.

Answer 5

Just try and tlak to you mom!

Answer 6

Please be very careful around this guy.  You need to know how to get in touch with the child welfare agency in your state.  I see too many situations where boyfriend abuses his girlfriends children.

You should find someone who is willing to be a confident to you and they would be willing to make some phone calls for you.  Teachers, family, friends, doctors, church friends.  Find someone to help you.

Good luck.

Answer 7

well your mom should know that if you guys dont like him then he needs to go... and i would hide camrecorders in places and then show them to your mom. then you should play pranks on him and h**l either try to abuse you or leave.. if he abuses you, you take the video to school or somethin and tell someone... if he leaves you might be able to tell your mom how you feel so she wont be sad:]

Answer 8

Tell the cops. I have no idea what to do. But I hate how your mom is completely oblivious to all this. He is a jerk. You need to get a pocket recorder, and record what he says when he says things like that then show that to her. She needs to know whats going on. Sure its her happiness, but come on he is being kind of controlling and he is only a boyfriend. You are not his child do not listen to him.

Answer 9

i know how you feel!!!!!!!!!! I am in the same situation as you are, and i am pissssssssssseeeeeeeeeeedddddddddddd as h**l! i am just going to say have a chat with your mom, and make sure your brother is there, and tell how many things that a*****e has done that made you angry, make sure that you make a point, of how rude, and mean, and cruel he treats you. If your mom wont listen lock the door and have your brother stand there preventing from escaping. And dont listen to all the people that say you are a crybaby,  they are all b*tches!

Answer 10

i understand what going through my mom has a boyfriend and he lives with us and thinks that everything in the house is his and yells at my and my little brother alot and trys to take away our stuff and hate it too he has been living with us four about a year and a half .and i dont like him at all

Answer 11

sit the b******e down and tell him how you feel and dont be nice to him when you sit him down and tell your mom (alone,without the guy but have your brother there to place some complaints) and tell her how you feel and make sure she makes him move out as soon as possible!!!!! scream till you get her attention then talk to her befor you do all the other stuff well see if that works and try your best!!!!!!!! you go girl!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 12

gosh, that's a hard situation to be in. If your Mom won't listen maybe you could talk to an aunt or grandmother and they could express your concerns to your mother. good luck.