My husband and I were just married August 7th, and we've been so happy ever since! We each have children from previous marriages, he has a nine year old daughter and I have children ages seven, almost five, and thirteen month old triplets (they're quite a handful!).
Anyway, ever since my husband and I celebrated our wedding, my new mother-in-law is slipping little hints to me like, "Maybe you two could have a new little baby around to celebrate your first anniversary next year, you know how I would adore another one of Aden's children." etc. etc. It's like she's trying to make me feel guilty for not wanting more children at the time. She's very manipulative.
I want to say something to her like, "So having 5 new grandchildren (in reference to my children) isn't good enough for you?" but I don't want to start our new relationship off on bad terms. How can I explain to her that while Aden and I want two or three more children EVENTUALLY, we really want to wait and enjoy our family as it is before we throw another child into the mix? I don't want to fight with her; how can I present myself calmly and kindly?
Thanks to all for any advice, I could really use it; it's a really stressful time for me, what with being newly (and happily!) married and combining my husband's household with mine.
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